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367: Nacho Parenting Isn't That!

367: Nacho Parenting Isn't That!

Author: Lori Sims & David Sims June 12, 2026 Duration: 29:14
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
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This episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast dives into the realities of publishing the upcoming Nacho Kids book and unpacks common misconceptions about the Nacho Parenting method. The conversation focuses on the emotional journey behind writing and editing, clarifies what "nacho" means in step-parenting, and discusses the nuanced paths toward building healthier relationships within blended families. Listeners will hear honest reflections on perfectionism, practical advice on stepfamily dynamics, and encouragement for step-parents navigating their own journeys.

Key topics discussed:

  • The challenges and emotional process of writing, editing, and publishing the Nacho Kids book  

  • Perfectionism vs. sharing helpful information: letting go of the need for perfection  

  • The meaning of "nacho": clarifying that it's about boundaries and responsibility, not ignoring stepkids' issues  

  • The difference between "disengaging" and "not engaging" as step-parents, and why these can be temporary, needed steps  

  • Why step-parent/stepchild relationships can be complicated and change over time  

  • The variety of step-parent roles, from supportive adult to parental figure, and the importance of adapting to each unique family situation  

  • The importance of compassion, communication, and not forcing relationships or choices between step-kids and partners  

  • Encouragement for self-development, understanding, and treating everyone in the blend with kindness and respect  


Navigating the complexities of a stepfamily can feel like an isolating journey, but it doesn’t have to be. The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver offers a genuine conversation for anyone in the thick of it, hosted by Lori and David Sims. As founders of Nacho Kids and experienced blended family coaches themselves, they bring both personal insight and professional guidance to each episode. This isn’t about abstract theory; it’s real talk about the daily struggles, from co-parenting tensions and sibling dynamics to maintaining your own relationship sanity. You’ll hear from the hosts and their guests as they share candid stories of both setbacks and hard-won successes, creating a sense of community. At the heart of this podcast is the practical, life-changing framework of the Nacho Kids Method, which provides tangible strategies for saving relationships and building a peaceful home. Tune in for honest discussions that replace judgment with support, offering the tools and reassurance needed to thrive in your blended family life. Each conversation is designed to make you feel understood and equipped, turning overwhelming challenges into manageable steps forward.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

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370: Leaving the Stepkids Out [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:53
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David discuss a dilemma from their Facebook group about whether to include a troubled stepchild in a previously planned family cruise. The conversation explores the emo…
368: Surviving Summer In The Blend [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:39
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David broadcast live from the beach, sharing personal stories and hard-learned lessons about stepfamily vacations. They discuss the logistical and emotional challenges…
366: Loss, Reconciliation, and Growth in the blend [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:14:51
In this heartfelt episode, Lori talks with California Stepmom, who shares her decade-long journey as a stepmom in a blend with no biological or "ours" kids of her own, but with plenty of lessons learned and emotional ups…
365: The Second Time Around [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:20:52
In this heartfelt episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, David Sims and Lori Sims are joined by Erin and Jason Mencer to share their remarkable journey as a blended family. Married, divorced, and then remarried, Erin and Jas…
363: How Did We Get Here? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:07:22
** Disclaimer: This episode includes discussion of addiction, overdosing, and alleged inappropriate touching between a stepparent and stepchild ** In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with longtime f…
362: Comparison Will Make You Miserable [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 24:28
Comparisons are the Thief of Joy—But What About in Blended Families? In episode NKP362 of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David dive deep into the pitfalls of comparison, especially when it comes to blended families, ki…
361: Keep The Target Off Your Back [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:42
In this episode, Lori and David dig into real-life stepfamily scenarios from handling dinnertime food drama with stepkids, to discovering vapes hidden in a teenager's room. They discuss the importance of keeping the "tar…
360: Stepmom Becomes Only Legal Parent to Stepdaughter [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:17
In this heartfelt episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Valerie Mills shares her remarkable story of becoming a stepmom who ultimately adopted her stepdaughter, overcoming immense obstacles and heartbreak along the way. Lis…

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