373: Don't Give Up!

373: Don't Give Up!

Author: Lori Sims & David Sims July 24, 2026 Duration: 22:03

In this episode, Lori and David share an inspiring success story from their Facebook group, highlighting how the Nacho Kids method helped transform a strained stepmom-stepdaughter relationship into a loving bond resulting in being asked to stand as "mother of the bride" at the stepdaughter's wedding. They discuss the importance of letting relationships develop naturally, utilizing strategies like the "gray rock" method to avoid negative engagement, and stress the value of finding a therapist who understands stepfamily dynamics.

Lori and David also address common misconceptions about stepparent roles, set boundaries, and the need for patience when building blended family relationships. The episode features relatable and humorous moments between the hosts, including communication mix-ups and quirky family anecdotes. Listeners are encouraged to continue learning through the Nacho Kids Academy, check out the upcoming Nacho Kids book (now available for Kindle pre-order), and seek coaching if needed.

Tune in for practical advice, personal stories, and a reminder that successful blended family relationships take time, effort, and the right support.


Topics Discussed

  • Nacho Kids book available for Kindle pre-order

  • Inspiring Facebook group story: from conflict with stepchildren to being asked to be "mother of the bride"

  • The importance of patience and playing the long game in blended family relationships

  • How the "gray rock" method is part of Nacho Parenting

  • Letting the child lead the relationship and setting appropriate boundaries as a stepparent

  • The necessity of finding therapists who understand the Nacho Kids method and stepfamily dynamics

  • Recognizing that relationships need ongoing nurturing, even after achieving major milestones


Navigating the complexities of a stepfamily can feel like an isolating journey, but it doesn’t have to be. The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver offers a genuine conversation for anyone in the thick of it, hosted by Lori and David Sims. As founders of Nacho Kids and experienced blended family coaches themselves, they bring both personal insight and professional guidance to each episode. This isn’t about abstract theory; it’s real talk about the daily struggles, from co-parenting tensions and sibling dynamics to maintaining your own relationship sanity. You’ll hear from the hosts and their guests as they share candid stories of both setbacks and hard-won successes, creating a sense of community. At the heart of this podcast is the practical, life-changing framework of the Nacho Kids Method, which provides tangible strategies for saving relationships and building a peaceful home. Tune in for honest discussions that replace judgment with support, offering the tools and reassurance needed to thrive in your blended family life. Each conversation is designed to make you feel understood and equipped, turning overwhelming challenges into manageable steps forward.
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