375: Family Law Strategies With Jasmine Hernandez Esq

375: Family Law Strategies With Jasmine Hernandez Esq

Author: Lori Sims & David Sims August 7, 2026 Duration: 41:31

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, family law attorney Jasmine Hernandez shares her extensive experience from over a decade practicing in New York, specializing in representing children in family court. Jasmine clarifies the complex legal rights of stepparents, explains why detailed and organized custody agreements are essential, especially in high-conflict cases, and discusses the importance of keeping children's best interests front and center. She addresses common questions about stepparent involvement, including visitation, signing school and medical forms, and the challenges around parental badmouthing. Jasmine emphasizes flexibility, communication, and documentation, offers her perspective on college expenses and parenting apps, and highlights how social media and recordings can impact custody cases. Throughout, she encourages both compassion and organization, reminding listeners that it's all about the kids.


Key Topics Covered

  • Stepparent legal rights, visitation, and involvement 

  • The importance of detailed and specific custody agreements

  • Common mistakes parents make in custody and parenting plans

  • Challenges and strategies in high-conflict custody situations

  • Guidelines for stepparents on school and medical paperwork

  • Procedures for handling custody violations and court enforcement

  • Impact of parental badmouthing and communication with children

  • Recording conversations or exchanges and use of evidence in court

  • College and extracurricular expenses in custody/support agreements

  • Best practices for co-parenting communication (including parenting apps)

  • The risks of social media use during custody cases

  • Tips for maintaining focus on the children's well-being throughout the process


Navigating the complexities of a stepfamily can feel like an isolating journey, but it doesn’t have to be. The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver offers a genuine conversation for anyone in the thick of it, hosted by Lori and David Sims. As founders of Nacho Kids and experienced blended family coaches themselves, they bring both personal insight and professional guidance to each episode. This isn’t about abstract theory; it’s real talk about the daily struggles, from co-parenting tensions and sibling dynamics to maintaining your own relationship sanity. You’ll hear from the hosts and their guests as they share candid stories of both setbacks and hard-won successes, creating a sense of community. At the heart of this podcast is the practical, life-changing framework of the Nacho Kids Method, which provides tangible strategies for saving relationships and building a peaceful home. Tune in for honest discussions that replace judgment with support, offering the tools and reassurance needed to thrive in your blended family life. Each conversation is designed to make you feel understood and equipped, turning overwhelming challenges into manageable steps forward.
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