How Men Can Still Lead in Marriage — Even When the Wife Is the Breadwinner

How Men Can Still Lead in Marriage — Even When the Wife Is the Breadwinner

Author: theoasishaqqislam November 13, 2025 Duration: 49:44
In this episode Bilal and Shaeeda stars of 90 Day Fiancé and friends to the room, open up about what it really takes to create balance in modern relationships. From navigating gender roles and cultural expectations to elevating each other in marriage and family life, they share how mutual support and understanding can transform a partnership. Grounded in their Islamic faith, Bilal and Shaeeda discuss what Islam teaches about the structure of marriage and how couples can find harmony between leadership, love, and respect. Bilal offers real advice to young brothers on how a man can lead and support his family—even when his wife earns more, while Shaeeda reflects on her journey to motherhood after 35 and the joys of blending family life with her creative pursuits. Together, they explore the power of shared values, humor, and teamwork in overcoming challenges, while touching on how social media and cultural identity shape modern love. Whether you’re inspired by faith, passionate about relationships, or simply seeking better balance in your own life, this conversation is a refreshing and insightful listen. #familysupport #genderroles #familygrowth #islamicperspectivesonmarriage #empoweringwomeninrelationships CHAPTERS: 01:08 - Intro 01:59 - Pregnancy After 35 03:33 - DMing Your Husband 06:25 - Being a Mom After 40 07:11 - Blending Families 08:17 - Gender Roles in Relationships 09:55 - Special Guest 18:33 - Money Management 24:33 - Money and Women 27:10 - Balancing Life and Relationships 32:36 - Who Comes Up with The Social Content 36:21 - Update on TV Show Love InshaAllah 40:07 - What’s Next 42:16 - Final Words   The Oasis with Haqq Islam Podcast Subscribe to Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@haqqislamoasis Listen on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-oasis-with-a-haqq-islam/id1740666577 Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haqqislamoasis/?hl=en Follow on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@haqqislamoasis Oasis Podcast Website: https://www.theoasispodcast.com/  

Each week on The Oasis with A.Haqq Islam, host and music industry veteran A. Haqq Islam creates a space for dialogue that feels both necessary and rare. These are conversations that move beyond surface-level headlines, delving into the tangible influence of Islamic faith and Muslim individuals within the most dynamic sectors of modern life. You’ll hear discussions exploring how faith intersects with creative and professional worlds, from the rhythms of Hip Hop and the narratives of film to the strategies of business, the innovation in technology, and the expressions of fashion and sports. This podcast consistently highlights the stories of Muslims who are actively shaping culture, yet whose contributions are often overlooked within mainstream narratives. The tone is intimate and refreshing, offering a perspective that consciously challenges narrow, stereotypical views, whether domestic or international. By focusing on real impact and personal journeys, the series builds a more nuanced understanding. It’s not about preaching, but about presenting a vibrant, multifaceted portrait of engagement and identity. Tuning into this podcast means accessing a forum where spirituality, ambition, and cultural commentary meet, all guided by a host with deep roots in the industry he discusses. The result is a compelling blend of personal insight and broader cultural analysis, making each episode a point of connection and discovery.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

The Oasis with A.Haqq Islam
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Is It the Apps or Us? Muslim Marriage Struggles Explained [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:12:55
Are you a millennial or Gen Z Muslim struggling to navigate the modern marriage scene while building a successful career? In this episode of the Oasis, we sit down with Basama Beyah, to discuss everything from modest fas…
From Refugee Camp to Miss Cosmos: The Khadija Omar Story [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 47:13
From a refugee camp in Kenya to the international stage of Miss World and Miss Universe, Khadija Omar has spent her life shattering glass ceilings. In this powerful episode of the Oasis, host Haqq Islam sits down with th…
From Guinea to Harlem: How Caps USA Built a Streetwear Empire [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:03:03
From a small table on a Harlem street corner to a global street wear powerhouse, the story of Caps USA is a masterclass in faith, family, and perseverance. Join us on this episode of the Oasis as we sit down with Thierno…
Veiled Visionaries: Empowering Black Muslim Women in Style [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:46
In this episode of The Oasis, we sit down with Machiami, the founder of Veiled Visionaries and a Forbes Africa recognized leader who is redefining visibility for Black Muslim women in the global market. She share her jou…
5 Warning Signs of Heart Disease: A Cardiologist’s Guide [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 59:12
In this episode of The Oasis, Brother Haqq Islam sits down with Dr. Ali, a leading cardiovascular specialist and professor at Columbia University, to uncover the truth about heart disease, obesity, and diabetes. This dee…
From $1 Cookies to a Viral Bakery: The Miss Elite Bakes Story [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:10
Today on The Oasis, we sit down with the incredible Amira Porter, the visionary behind Miss Elite Bakes, to discuss her inspiring journey from selling treats in high school to opening a thriving bakery in the heart of Ph…
5 Foods to REMOVE From Your Kitchen for a Healthy Life [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 37:47
In this episode of the Oasis, we sit down with one of Doha’s most talented chefs to discuss her culinary journey and her strict philosophy on nutrition. Soumaya reveals why she has completely eliminated sugar, processed…
Love Isn’t Enough: Expert Explains Why Marriage Is A Business [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:27:40
Is marriage really just about love, or is it the most significant financial decision of your life? In this episode of The Oasis, host Haqq Islam sits down with capital markets expert and Finleet founder Farah Kamal to ex…