37 - The Trauma of Weaponized Guilt - Guilt trip manipulation in relationships gotcha down? That ish is no joke—let's heal it.

37 - The Trauma of Weaponized Guilt - Guilt trip manipulation in relationships gotcha down? That ish is no joke—let's heal it.

Author: Remy Ramirez - Your Trauma Bestie™️ March 12, 2023 Duration: 1:13:25
Turns out there's healthy guilt (like when you realize you need to apologize for something) and unhealthy guilt (like when your parents make you feel like shit for holding them accountable). When guilt is weaponized against us, especially as children, it can turn into shame, and shame can—and WILL—turn into a whole clusterfuck of mental health bummers. In this episode, I welcome psychotherapist Allison Ly to the show to talk us through reclaiming a healthy relationship to guilt. If you'd like a one-on-one coaching session with Remy, go https://calendly.com/workwithremy/55-minutes (⁠here⁠). If you'd like a birth chart reading with Remy, go https://calendly.com/workwithremy/birth-chart-reading (⁠here⁠). Want to connect? Find me here: https://www.instagram.com/thepatraumaparty/?hl=en (⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠)https://www.tiktok.com/@thepatraumaparty?_t=ZP-8w1s4E2IqIY&_r=1⁠ (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠) https://www.tiktok.com/@thepatraumaparty?_t=ZP-8w1s4E2IqIY&_r=1⁠ (⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠) Email: patraumaparty@gmail.com The information provided on this podcast is for informational purposes only. None of the material presented is intended to be a substitute for psychotherapy, counseling, professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. If you need to speak with a professional, you can find one local to you and reach out directly, or you can call 988 to connect with the national Suicide and Crisis Hotline.

Ever find yourself laughing through the pain because, honestly, what else is there to do? That's the space where The Patrauma Party-Heal from trauma, improve self worth, and learn to love yourself, dammit lives. Hosted by Remy Ramirez, who you'll quickly come to know as Your Trauma Bestie, this isn't your typical solemn dive into psychology. It's a real, often surprisingly funny, and always compassionate conversation about why healing from past wounds feels so frustratingly difficult. Each episode alternates between insightful talks with mental health professionals and raw, practical coaching sessions where Remy guides real listeners through their immediate struggles. You'll hear people unpack why they're drawn to unavailable partners, how to quiet that voice doubting their worth, and what it truly takes to break free from cycles that talk of "just moving on" never seems to fix. The core question driving every discussion is a practical one: how do we actually change? If you're tired of theoretical advice and crave relatable stories and actionable steps, this podcast offers a sense of community and a much-needed dose of humor on the path toward understanding yourself better.
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