43 - Emotional Flashbacks from CPTSD - There's no healing from complex trauma and PTSD without addressing the emotional flashback sitch—let's do this.

43 - Emotional Flashbacks from CPTSD - There's no healing from complex trauma and PTSD without addressing the emotional flashback sitch—let's do this.

Author: Remy Ramirez - Your Trauma Bestie™️ June 3, 2023 Duration: 1:12:50
We're not talkin' nostalgia, baby! Emotional flashbacks happen when we experienced ongoing abuse as children, and then we get a whiff of that experience as adults, (like, maybe you hear people yelling in the apartment next door or someone takes a long time to text you back (in the case of neglect or abandonment)) and suddenly our emotional state is F*CKED. The crazy thing is how often we have these flashbacks *without ever knowing that that's what's happening*—and instead of taking care of our post-traumatic stress, we go into a shame spiral thinking we're fucked up and crazy because we literally have no idea what's happening to us. BOOOOO—total shit scenario. To shed some light on all this, I welcome psychotherapist https://www.alchemymentalwellness.com/ (Amanda Ichihashi Jagerman) back to the show to help us get clarity on how emotional flashbacks work and how we work with them. If you'd like a one-on-one coaching session with Remy, go https://calendly.com/workwithremy/55-minutes (⁠here⁠). If you'd like a birth chart reading with Remy, go https://calendly.com/workwithremy/birth-chart-reading (⁠here⁠). Want to connect? Find me here: https://www.instagram.com/thepatraumaparty/?hl=en (⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠)https://www.tiktok.com/@thepatraumaparty?_t=ZP-8w1s4E2IqIY&_r=1⁠ (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠) https://www.tiktok.com/@thepatraumaparty?_t=ZP-8w1s4E2IqIY&_r=1⁠ (⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠) Email: patraumaparty@gmail.com The contents of this podcast are provided for informational purposes only. None of the material presented is intended to be a substitute for psychotherapy, counseling, professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you need to speak with a professional, you can find one local to you and reach out directly, or, in the US, you can call 988 to connect with the Suicide and Crisis Hotline.

Ever find yourself laughing through the pain because, honestly, what else is there to do? That's the space where The Patrauma Party-Heal from trauma, improve self worth, and learn to love yourself, dammit lives. Hosted by Remy Ramirez, who you'll quickly come to know as Your Trauma Bestie, this isn't your typical solemn dive into psychology. It's a real, often surprisingly funny, and always compassionate conversation about why healing from past wounds feels so frustratingly difficult. Each episode alternates between insightful talks with mental health professionals and raw, practical coaching sessions where Remy guides real listeners through their immediate struggles. You'll hear people unpack why they're drawn to unavailable partners, how to quiet that voice doubting their worth, and what it truly takes to break free from cycles that talk of "just moving on" never seems to fix. The core question driving every discussion is a practical one: how do we actually change? If you're tired of theoretical advice and crave relatable stories and actionable steps, this podcast offers a sense of community and a much-needed dose of humor on the path toward understanding yourself better.
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