95 - Avoidant Attachment Style: Real talk—emotional intimacy isn't easy. Let's build effective communication skills & get your relationships back on track.

95 - Avoidant Attachment Style: Real talk—emotional intimacy isn't easy. Let's build effective communication skills & get your relationships back on track.

Author: Remy Ramirez - Your Trauma Bestie™️ November 22, 2025 Duration: 48:57

This is a continuation of the attachment style series! So many of us are avoidant *and don't even know it.* We avoid conflict, people please, shut down, and/or chronically fail to voice our needs in relationships (yes! this is what a fear of intimacy looks like!). So how do we go from avoidant attachment to a healthier, more secure attachment? In this episode, Dr. Diane Mueller, ND, DAOM, LAc, joins me to dive into how we got here, how it hurts us (aka it's literally impacting your health), and how we start to heal.

Want to work with Dr. Mueller? Check out her Eternal Honeymoon course! It's for couples who want to reignite the sexual spark. You'll get solutions and strategies for improving libido and drive (read: having mind-blowing sex again). Great for singles who want to improve their sexy-time communicaton skills, too!

Looking for more episodes on attachment styles? Try episode 6—it's all about the anxious/avoidant relationship trap. You can also try any of these episodes—they're all about anxious attachment: episode 14, episode 88, and episode 89.

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Ever find yourself laughing through the pain because, honestly, what else is there to do? That's the space where The Patrauma Party-Heal from trauma, improve self worth, and learn to love yourself, dammit lives. Hosted by Remy Ramirez, who you'll quickly come to know as Your Trauma Bestie, this isn't your typical solemn dive into psychology. It's a real, often surprisingly funny, and always compassionate conversation about why healing from past wounds feels so frustratingly difficult. Each episode alternates between insightful talks with mental health professionals and raw, practical coaching sessions where Remy guides real listeners through their immediate struggles. You'll hear people unpack why they're drawn to unavailable partners, how to quiet that voice doubting their worth, and what it truly takes to break free from cycles that talk of "just moving on" never seems to fix. The core question driving every discussion is a practical one: how do we actually change? If you're tired of theoretical advice and crave relatable stories and actionable steps, this podcast offers a sense of community and a much-needed dose of humor on the path toward understanding yourself better.
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