126. Steve, The Poet Who Didn’t Know It

126. Steve, The Poet Who Didn’t Know It

Author: Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett March 8, 2023 Duration: 58:35
  Today, we talk with Steve, the poet who didn’t know it.   Steve is one of our listeners who volunteered to be one of our guests. He found the podcast a very helpful resource for his recovery. From prostate cancer.  Like some of you who listen to the podcast, Steve was diagnosed with Prostate Cancer at 56 years old. He also had a family history, given that his father and brother had the same diagnosis.   Post-op, Steve lacked information. So, he turned to Google and looked for support groups. There, he found Victoria, Tess, and then us.   With everything that happened to him, he learned how important it is to support others going through this journey. This was the reason why he became a staple in Facebook support groups… and along the way, poetry and words found him.   He used words to share his journey, to express his thoughts, to give life to what he was going through, and ultimately, to inspire others.   As you listen to this episode, you will transcend to a different kind of world - a world of words - where we believe a lot of you will feel as if the words are speaking to you.   It’s magnificent how we get to see that words can heal us - whether that’s through poetry or through frankness and honesty.   Enjoy listening and watch out for some poem reading from Melissa a in our next episodes! ;)   Jo has arranged for poetry reading in Melbourne in March (from the man himself). If you are interested in attending, please see below:  Poetry in Prostate Cancer Thank you, Steve, for sharing your story and the things you wrote to help others cope.  Please see below helpful resources:  Victoria Cullen: My life line, mental support and all around saviour early on! https://www.atouchysubject.com/   Tess Deveze Penis Pleasure Masterclass: https://connectable.podia.com/penis-pleasure Find me at: https://www.connectabletherapies.com/   These are the three private FB groups that I share my poetry with. https://www.facebook.com/groups/sexloveandprostatecancer https://www.facebook.com/groups/cancerandintimacy https://www.facebook.com/groups/2166896740268978   Tafy Seade – Inner active Pelvic Health and Physiotherapy https://inneractivephysio.com.au/ ---------- Websites: https://melissahadleybarrett.com   Men’s health only https://rshealth.com.au/  All genders http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/ http://prost.com.au/   Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/ https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/ TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett YouTube: Melissa Hadley BarrettLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/   Music David Mercy https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg   Producer Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/ https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi

For anyone who’s ever felt alone or confused about a sexual health issue, The Penis Project Podcast: Breaking Taboos in Men’s Sexual Health provides a rare and essential space for honest dialogue. Hosted by Australian Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett, this podcast emerged in 2020 from a collaboration with physiotherapist Jo Milios, born from a shared frustration with the silence and stigma surrounding men's bodies. The show has since grown into a substantial resource, with nearly 200 episodes and over 219,000 streams, reflecting its vital role. What you’ll hear here isn’t just theoretical; Melissa blends her clinical expertise with direct, anonymized conversations from her practice, often including the perspectives of patients and their partners. This approach transforms each episode into a nuanced exploration of real-life concerns-from erectile function and pelvic pain to intimacy and communication-topics that are routinely avoided yet universally impactful. The discussions are grounded in science but delivered with a relatable, compassionate tone that makes complex information accessible. Tuning into this podcast means joining a community where awkward questions are welcomed, evidence replaces myth, and personal stories illuminate the path to better health. It’s a practical guide for men and those who care about them, dismantling embarrassment one conversation at a time.
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