31. 7 Steps for Overcoming Parental Abuse and Neglect

31. 7 Steps for Overcoming Parental Abuse and Neglect

Author: Jennifer Bellingrodt, Psy.D. April 22, 2025 Duration: 13:32
Have you ever found yourself grappling with the lingering impact of a difficult childhood? As a psychologist, I regularly speak with individuals whose lives have been shaped by parental abuse, neglect, abandonment or betrayal. Whether we consciously acknowledge it or not, our upbringing profoundly influences our present-day well-being.Perhaps you've even worried about repeating patterns from your own childhood as a parent. While it's a common fear, the good news is that research shows it's not an inevitable outcome. Nonetheless, the impact of family of origin issues is significant, which is why I often delve deep into your upbringing in therapy. While coping strategies can offer temporary relief for anxiety, depression and other challenges, truly addressing the root often requires understanding and processing our past.This isn't about dwelling on blame or staying stuck in a victim role. Instead, it's about connecting the dots between your past experiences and present-day struggles to break free from limiting behaviors. You can't rewrite your story without understanding how it was written in the first place.In this episode, I'll guide you through a powerful 7-step approach to overcoming parental abuse and neglect. We'll explore everything from cultivating motivation for change to the crucial work of forgiveness and even how to clear the air with those who have hurt you (when safe to do so).It's time to stop letting the past dictate your present. You deserve better. Let's work together to understand your story, learn from it and empower you to live your best life.Jennifer Paweleck-Bellingrodt, Psy.D. Licensed Clinical Psychologist Website: https://www.doctorbellingrodt.com Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/jen.bellingrodt Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepsychwithamic/ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mendyourmind9761 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shrink.think?_t=8n2zq3IsVCw&_r=1 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jennifer-paweleck-bellingrodt-psy-d-5621a3146 Train with Me: https://thepsychoeducationacademy.com/ The Psychoeducation Academy Page: https://www.facebook.com/thepsychoeducationacademy Relationship Book: https://a.co/d/2eRfkOn Perimenopause Book: https://a.co/d/hQVAPz7 DISCLAIMER: Material on this site is for informational purposes only. The content of this site is not intended to be a substitute for evaluation or treatment by a licensed professi...

Dr. Jennifer Bellingrodt brings her microphone into the therapy room, or at least that's what it feels like when you tune into The Psych with a Mic Podcast. With a career spanning over two decades in both military and civilian practice, she’s guided thousands through complex emotional landscapes, and now she’s turning that wealth of experience into conversations you can carry with you. This isn't about abstract theories; it's practical, grounded talk about the real work of mental well-being, self-improvement, and personal evolution. Each episode feels like a direct, compassionate consultation, where Dr. Bellingrodt translates clinical insight into actionable steps for everyday life. You’ll hear discussions that cut through the noise, focusing on how to navigate internal obstacles and cultivate resilience. The aim is straightforward: to move past what holds you back. By blending education with a deeply human touch, this podcast serves as a resource for anyone looking to understand themselves better and foster genuine growth. It’s where the science of psychology meets the art of living, all delivered with the clarity and conviction of someone who has truly been there in the trenches with people. For those seeking a path to a healthier, more integrated self, this series offers both a map and a companion for the journey.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 37

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25. What Is "Normal" and How Do I Get There? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 9:07
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24. Slot Machine Parenting [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 7:58
Are you reinforcing your child's bad behavior without realizing it? In this episode, we're diving deep into the psychology of reinforcement and how inconsistent parenting can actually strengthen unwanted behaviors. Disco…
23. Why You Road Rage and How to Knock It Off [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:38
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22. Stop Gaslighting Yourself - 7 Ways to Cut Yourself Some Slack [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 13:33
Are you your own worst critic? Do you constantly second-guess yourself, replaying mistakes and fueling self-doubt? You might be gaslighting yourself. In this episode, we're tackling the insidious habit of internal gaslig…
21. Imposter Syndrome and How to Overcome It [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:53
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20. Why You Overreact [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 26:25
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19. You're Not a 2x4 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:51
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18. Pulling and Picking Disorders [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 9:13
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17. Why People Create Drama and What You Can Do About It [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:05
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16. Show Me the Money [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:08
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