461. 10 things I NEEDED 21 year old me to know

461. 10 things I NEEDED 21 year old me to know

Author: iHeartPodcasts September 24, 2026 Duration: 37:59

If I could sit down with my 21-year-old self, there are a few things I would definitely want to say. Today, I'm going to say them, like 'don't even THINK about moving in with that guy, use your savings account, care less about grades' and a few more. I also asked you guys, the listeners, about your biggest regrets from your early 20s so we can all learn from each other (how nice is that).

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We discuss:

  • Why the right relationship should expand your life, not shrink it
  • Why you shouldn’t rush into adulthood
  • Financial avoidance and learning to actually save
  • Why audacity can matter just as much as hard work
  • Caring less about grades and more about experience
  • Why nobody can tell you exactly how to live your 20s

Happy listening and drop yours below!

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Navigating your twenties can feel like a constant, bewildering experiment where you're both the scientist and the subject. The Psychology of your 20s, hosted by Jemma Sbeg, treats this unique decade with the thoughtful analysis it deserves. Released every Tuesday and Friday, each episode picks apart a specific thread of the modern twentysomething experience-whether it's the anxiety of mapping out a career, the complexities of dating apps, the strain on friendships, or the stress of managing money for the first time. Jemma grounds these universal themes in psychological research and science, offering clarity on why this period feels so tumultuous. The conversations move beyond simple advice, instead providing a framework for understanding the mental and emotional underpinnings of decisions big and small. This isn't a lecture; it's a companionable exploration of the growing pains that define adulthood's first chapter. Tuning into this podcast feels like gaining a new lens on your own life, one that transforms confusion into comprehension. It’s produced by iHeartPodcasts.
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