Bonus Replay: Chateau Buteau feat. Michelle Buteau

Bonus Replay: Chateau Buteau feat. Michelle Buteau

Author: Jaimie Kelton – Queer Parenting & LGBTQ Families'. July 29, 2024 Duration: 56:59

Jaimie is still on a short break with her family, but we thought you’d enjoy a hilarious interview with ally extraordinaire Michelle Buteau from 2019! Michelle Buteau talks about her six-year journey to parenthood. From a brain tumor to IUI to IVF to surrogacy to the work she did with Andy Cohen to legalize surrogacy in New York State. This episode originally aired when the podcast, co-hosted & co-founded by Robin Hopkins, was known as "If These Ovaries Could Talk." Enjoy this special throwback! 🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 

  • The hosts express their nervousness about the release of their upcoming book and the audio book version.
  • Michelle Buteau shares her personal journey of meeting her husband through a one-night stand, dealing with a benign brain tumor, and going through fertility treatments to have twins via surrogacy.
  • The hosts discuss the challenges and misconceptions faced by LGBTQ+ individuals when it comes to starting a family.
  • They highlight the importance of support and education in breaking down barriers and creating a more inclusive society. Fertility struggles can be emotionally and physically challenging, and it's important to have support and understanding from loved ones.
  • Misconceptions and lack of education about non-traditional family structures can lead to uncomfortable and insensitive questions and comments.
  • Advocacy and education are crucial in changing the landscape of fertility clinics and ensuring inclusivity for all individuals and couples.
  • Surrogacy can be a viable option for building a family, but it requires careful consideration and finding the right agency and surrogate.
  • Legislation and advocacy efforts can make a significant impact in improving access to surrogacy and reproductive rights for all individuals.

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🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato🏳️‍🌈

🎙️ Episode Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Book Release Nervousness

07:41 Michelle Buteau's Fertility Struggles

17: 21 Challenges Faced by LGBTQ+ Individuals in Healthcare

26:08 Promoting Education and Love for Inclusivity

29:25 Fertility Insight from Home

29:30 The Emotional Toll of Fertility

30:51 The Journey of IVF and Miscarriages

32:43 Embryos Banked and the Surrogacy Option

43:44 Advocacy and Lobbying for Surrogacy Rights

52:08 Resilience, Perseverance, and the Power of Love




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Hosted by queer mom Jaimie Kelton, The Queer Family Podcast-LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories offers a weekly space that is both uproariously funny and deeply genuine. Each episode features conversations with LGBTQIA+ parents, hopeful parents, and their allies, delving into the specific joys and hurdles of building a family outside of traditional frameworks. You’ll hear firsthand accounts of the paths to parenthood-from adoption and fostering to IVF and surrogacy-and the everyday realities of raising kids in a world that can still feel unfamiliar. This podcast moves beyond theory, focusing on lived experiences that cover everything from health and fitness routines that work for queer families to navigating complex conversations about sexuality and society with children. The goal is straightforward: to share stories that normalize these experiences, elevate diverse voices, and celebrate the full spectrum of queer family life. Tuning in means connecting with a community, finding resonance in shared challenges, and gathering a lot of practical wisdom-and laughter-along the way. It’s a resource and a companion for anyone curious about or living within the beautifully expansive definition of a modern family.
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