From Gay Moms to Gay Dad Surrogates: A Chosen Family Story

From Gay Moms to Gay Dad Surrogates: A Chosen Family Story

Author: Jaimie Kelton – Queer Parenting & LGBTQ Families'. June 24, 2024 Duration: 56:16

Lauren and Amanda Brown are back! The interracial lesbian moms share updates on their family-building journey, including Lauren's recent decision to become a gestational surrogate for a two-dad family. They discuss their motivations for choosing surrogacy, the emotional highs and lows, and the intricacies of the process, including a detailed narrative of the screening process, embryo transfer, and matching with the intended parents, offering valuable insights for anyone considering or curious about surrogacy. They also explore broader themes like LGBTQIA advocacy and the true meaning of Pride, highlighting the power of chosen family and the unique bonds within the queer community.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 

  • Surrogacy Journey: Lauren shares the detailed process of becoming a gestational surrogate, from initial contact with an agency to the present 14 weeks of pregnancy.
  • Matching with Intended Parents: The importance of finding a perfect match with the intended parents, which includes aligning values and family visions.
  • Advocacy and Representation: The need for more visibility and support for LGBTQIA families in the fertility and surrogacy industry.
  • Queer Community and Chosen Family: The unique and supportive nature of chosen family within the queer community.
  • Understanding Pride: A reflection on the historical significance of Pride and the contemporary struggles for LGBTQIA rights.


🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Lauren and Amanda Brown are known as the Two Mom Browns on social media. The couple uses their platform to share their family-building journey, celebrate their identities, and advocate for LGBTQIA rights and visibility.

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Hosted by queer mom Jaimie Kelton, The Queer Family Podcast-LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories offers a weekly space that is both uproariously funny and deeply genuine. Each episode features conversations with LGBTQIA+ parents, hopeful parents, and their allies, delving into the specific joys and hurdles of building a family outside of traditional frameworks. You’ll hear firsthand accounts of the paths to parenthood-from adoption and fostering to IVF and surrogacy-and the everyday realities of raising kids in a world that can still feel unfamiliar. This podcast moves beyond theory, focusing on lived experiences that cover everything from health and fitness routines that work for queer families to navigating complex conversations about sexuality and society with children. The goal is straightforward: to share stories that normalize these experiences, elevate diverse voices, and celebrate the full spectrum of queer family life. Tuning in means connecting with a community, finding resonance in shared challenges, and gathering a lot of practical wisdom-and laughter-along the way. It’s a resource and a companion for anyone curious about or living within the beautifully expansive definition of a modern family.
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