Bonus Replay: Redefining Parenthood: A Queer Guide to Modern Parenting

Bonus Replay: Redefining Parenthood: A Queer Guide to Modern Parenting

Author: Jaimie Kelton – Queer Parenting & LGBTQ Families'. August 25, 2025 Duration: 1:06:35

🎉 Bonus Episode Alert! 🎉 Season 20 officially drops on September 1st, but while you wait, we’ve got one last bonus for you. This heartfelt and thought-provoking conversation redefines what it means to parent in our queer, messy, beautiful, modern world.

Writer, activist, and parent S. Bear Bergman sits down with Jaimie to explore love, family, and LGBTQIA identity against the backdrop of today’s political climate.

Bear shares his journey from coming out at 15 to more than 35 years of activism and parenting as a queer, trans parent. Together, they unpack the joys and challenges of inclusive parenting, co-parenting with a known donor, and raising kids with progressive values.

Bear also introduces his new book, Special Topics in Being a Parent, which is full of insights for parents navigating inclusive family life. Expect a conversation that’s equal parts heartfelt, hopeful, and humorous — and a reminder that queer families are always rewriting the rules of what parenthood can look like.

🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

  • Bear’s journey from queer teen to seasoned activist and parent.
  • The realities of co-parenting with a known donor.
  • How to practice inclusive parenting and live progressive values.
  • Why telling our stories is more important than ever in today’s political climate.


🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned

• Grab a copy of Special Topics in Being a Parent 

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Every family has a story, but the paths taken by LGBTQIA+ parents are often uniquely creative, filled with both profound joy and specific hurdles. The Queer Family Podcast-LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories is a weekly space where those narratives take center stage. Host Jaimie Kelton, a queer mom herself, guides conversations that are as laugh-out-loud funny as they are deeply moving. Each episode features candid interviews with a diverse range of guests, all sharing the intimate details of how they built their families-from adoption and fostering to IVF, surrogacy, and co-parenting. You’ll hear how these families navigate school systems, healthcare, and everyday social situations, tackling challenges with resilience and humor. This podcast digs into the real stuff of queer family life, covering topics across parenting, health, fitness, and sexuality, all through an authentic LGBTQ lens. The goal isn’t just to share stories; it’s to normalize and celebrate the beautiful spectrum of ways to create a home. Tune in for a sense of community, practical insights, and a powerful reminder that family is about love, in all its forms.
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