#30: What Happens When You Have an Emotion

#30: What Happens When You Have an Emotion

Author: Bay Area DBT & Couples Counseling Center July 16, 2020 Duration: 37:36

Today, Marielle and Ed unpack what happens in the body and mind when an emotion occurs. There's actually a lot going on!  If you are sensitive to or are confused by your emotions, it can be helpful to have an understanding of the different components that make up an emotional experience.

 DBT's Model for Describing Emotions breaks down emotions into ten parts: the prompting event, awareness, interpretation, vulnerability factors, biological changes, nervous system changes, expressions, actions, emotion names, and after-effects. This episode explores all these parts as well as skills to intervene at different points during the emotional experience.

To learn more about this podcast and get full show notes, go to www.bayareadbtcc.com

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