Ep 24. A Very Eclectic Episode: 100K Followers, Being a Service Sub, & Surgery

Ep 24. A Very Eclectic Episode: 100K Followers, Being a Service Sub, & Surgery

Author: Dr. K - Holistic Sexuality Educator April 28, 2021 Duration: 54:06

Wow, it has been a roller coaster of a week! I hit 100K followers on TikTok and inadvertently found myself in vanilla TikTok!? Just what exactly is a service submissive? And let's just chat a bit about the public shaming I experienced as a submissive within the world of social media. I also an update on the launch of the official MERCH shop, and share some updates on my surgery this week. Finally, I share some resources on where to go for courses and additional education from some of my favorite kink-aware educators and artists! Grab that drink... this is sure to be a bit of a wild ride!

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Resources:

Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) 

About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.

Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech

 


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In a world where conversations about sexuality are often reduced to clichés or clinical terms, The Submissive Next Door Podcast offers a different space. Hosted by Dr. K, a holistic sexuality educator and empowerment coach, this series explores the nuanced realities of kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles from a place of lived experience. Dr. K brings her multifaceted perspective as a fitness trainer, a practitioner devoted to tantra and embodiment, and someone who identifies as a 24/7 submissive. Each episode is a candid discussion that moves beyond titillation to examine the intersections of erotic intelligence, holistic living, and personal power. You’ll hear thoughtful explorations of how submission, dominance, and conscious intimacy fit into a full, integrated life. This podcast dismantles stereotypes, offering listeners a resource that is as intellectually engaging as it is personally relevant. It’s about the practical philosophy of relationships and self-discovery, framed through an unflinchingly honest and compassionate lens. For anyone curious about the deeper layers of desire and connection, this show provides a grounded, educational, and deeply human entry point. Tune in for conversations that honor the complexity of human sexuality with authenticity and care.
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