Ep. 31 - Sex Tech Episode: Hey OnlyFans... WTF?!

Ep. 31 - Sex Tech Episode: Hey OnlyFans... WTF?!

Author: Dr. K - Holistic Sexuality Educator August 24, 2021 Duration: 55:30

If you haven't heard, OnlyFans just announced a massive shift in their terms of service that has models, *corn* stars, and spicy accountants scrambling to answers questions. It will no longer be allowing sexually explicit content as of Oct. 1st and creators have until December to remove offensive content that goes against the TOS.

Questions like: Where do we go? What happens to all the content that my fans have paid for if I have to delete it all? Will OF refund the fans or will I have to? What about fans that purchased a 3, 6, or 12-month membership for content that will no longer be allowed? We will talk about it all here!

With my background in technology and platform testing, I took to the quest of running through use-case testing of nearly every reputable alternative to OF that I could find and will break down each one in this episode, as well as discuss the business decision that just might put OnlyFans under. I also discuss what the hell happened to my IG account (yup.. spoiler alter... It's banned... New one is linked!)... is Mercury in retrograde or what?!

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Resources:

Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) 

About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.

Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech

 


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In a world where conversations about sexuality are often reduced to clichés or clinical terms, The Submissive Next Door Podcast offers a different space. Hosted by Dr. K, a holistic sexuality educator and empowerment coach, this series explores the nuanced realities of kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles from a place of lived experience. Dr. K brings her multifaceted perspective as a fitness trainer, a practitioner devoted to tantra and embodiment, and someone who identifies as a 24/7 submissive. Each episode is a candid discussion that moves beyond titillation to examine the intersections of erotic intelligence, holistic living, and personal power. You’ll hear thoughtful explorations of how submission, dominance, and conscious intimacy fit into a full, integrated life. This podcast dismantles stereotypes, offering listeners a resource that is as intellectually engaging as it is personally relevant. It’s about the practical philosophy of relationships and self-discovery, framed through an unflinchingly honest and compassionate lens. For anyone curious about the deeper layers of desire and connection, this show provides a grounded, educational, and deeply human entry point. Tune in for conversations that honor the complexity of human sexuality with authenticity and care.
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