Ep. 37 - A Little Neuroscience and BDSM With a Side of Kink

Ep. 37 - A Little Neuroscience and BDSM With a Side of Kink

Author: Dr. K - Holistic Sexuality Educator March 5, 2022 Duration: 1:13:44

Are you ready to get down and nerdy with me? Good! And yes, you read the episode number right... I had a brain malfunction and skipped 37, so we are looping back around! In this episode, I take you on a deep dive discussion on the neuroscience of BDSM, the theories behind what makes kink and BDSM a positive experience to those who seek the endorphin rush, as well as the case studies around the prevalence of kink and BDSM today. Class is now in session!

Links for this episode:

Book: The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Stefani Goerlich

Book: Why Good Sex Matters by Dr. Nan Wise

Research Article: Physical Pain as Pleasure: A Theoretical Perspective by Cara Dunkley, Craig Henshaw, Saira Henshaw and Lori Brotto

Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)

Site: TASHRA's Research

Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality

Case Study Findings: The Health & Healthcare Experience of Kink-Oriented People (2016)

Research Article: The Effect of Sexual Arousal and Emotional Arousal on Working Memory by Ricky Au, and Verity Tang

Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover

Dr. K's Official Website

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Resources:

Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) 

About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.

Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech

Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover

 

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In a world where conversations about sexuality are often reduced to clichés or clinical terms, The Submissive Next Door Podcast offers a different space. Hosted by Dr. K, a holistic sexuality educator and empowerment coach, this series explores the nuanced realities of kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles from a place of lived experience. Dr. K brings her multifaceted perspective as a fitness trainer, a practitioner devoted to tantra and embodiment, and someone who identifies as a 24/7 submissive. Each episode is a candid discussion that moves beyond titillation to examine the intersections of erotic intelligence, holistic living, and personal power. You’ll hear thoughtful explorations of how submission, dominance, and conscious intimacy fit into a full, integrated life. This podcast dismantles stereotypes, offering listeners a resource that is as intellectually engaging as it is personally relevant. It’s about the practical philosophy of relationships and self-discovery, framed through an unflinchingly honest and compassionate lens. For anyone curious about the deeper layers of desire and connection, this show provides a grounded, educational, and deeply human entry point. Tune in for conversations that honor the complexity of human sexuality with authenticity and care.
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