Ep. 38 - ADHD, Sexuality, & Kink

Ep. 38 - ADHD, Sexuality, & Kink

Author: Dr. K - Holistic Sexuality Educator February 4, 2022 Duration: 1:25:30

Are you ready for an ADHD-infused conversation about ADHD? Good! Me too! This episode dives deep into Ari Tuckman's book "ADHD After Dark", case studies, and more, while I share the down and dirty details about how I handle my tendencies during those intimate moments. I'll also share highlights about my appearance on Forsale18's Twitch Stream, "Positive Thots", as well as everything I have found so far as I work on an academic literature review on ADHD & Sexuality. Get ready! This is a long episode!

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Links for this episode:

ADHD After Dark by Ari Tuckman

Positive Thots on Twitch with Forsale18

Research Article: Diagnosis, Assessment, and Treatment of Hypersexuality by Meg Kaplan

Site Article: We have ADHD. This is How We Have a Lot of Sex

Research Article: Hypersexuality: Psychopathology or normal variant of sexuality? 

Site Article: When ADHD Disrupts (and ruins) the Romance

Site Resource: ADHD and Marriage

Site Article: My ADHD Brain and 4 Odd Things that Freak it Out

Book Resource: Taming Your Gremlin (A Surprisingly Simple Method for Getting Out of Your Own Way)

Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover

Dr. K's Official Website

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Resources:

Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) 

About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.

Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech

Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover

 

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In a world where conversations about sexuality are often reduced to clichés or clinical terms, The Submissive Next Door Podcast offers a different space. Hosted by Dr. K, a holistic sexuality educator and empowerment coach, this series explores the nuanced realities of kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles from a place of lived experience. Dr. K brings her multifaceted perspective as a fitness trainer, a practitioner devoted to tantra and embodiment, and someone who identifies as a 24/7 submissive. Each episode is a candid discussion that moves beyond titillation to examine the intersections of erotic intelligence, holistic living, and personal power. You’ll hear thoughtful explorations of how submission, dominance, and conscious intimacy fit into a full, integrated life. This podcast dismantles stereotypes, offering listeners a resource that is as intellectually engaging as it is personally relevant. It’s about the practical philosophy of relationships and self-discovery, framed through an unflinchingly honest and compassionate lens. For anyone curious about the deeper layers of desire and connection, this show provides a grounded, educational, and deeply human entry point. Tune in for conversations that honor the complexity of human sexuality with authenticity and care.
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