S2, Ep. 1: Flipping The Script - The History and How-To of One of the Top Kinks Today

S2, Ep. 1: Flipping The Script - The History and How-To of One of the Top Kinks Today

Author: Dr. K - Holistic Sexuality Educator February 3, 2023 Duration: 1:13:48

I am so happy to share this with you all! After a long hiatus, The Submissive Next Door Podcast has officially launched with an all-new season and weekly shows! Guests are lined up, juicy topics are flowing, there is an all-new sound and vibe to the show; and I'm so stoked about it! For the first episode, I am chatting with you about my most requested topic to date! The history and how-to of P★gging! 

In today's episode, the topics we are going to cover are:

  • What pegging is
  • Where pegging came from
  • A little history about the strap-on
  • Statistics about the popularity of pegging today
  • Benefits of pegging
  • How to tell your partner you want to try it
  • Getting started with pegging for beginners
  • Aftercare
  • Final thoughts and precautions

Grab a drink, kick back, and lets get kinky!

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Links for this episode:

Article: The Male G-Spot

Article: Insights: Pegging Search Term on PornHub (please see the episode page for a direct link

Article: Sex and the Prostate: Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction

Article: The Prostate Orgasm: What it is

Research Article: Pegging and the heterosexualization of anal sex: An analysis of Savage Love advice

Additional Resources

Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)

Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality

Site: Center for Positive Sexuality

Site: Sexual Health Alliance

Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University

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Additional Resources:

Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)

About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.

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In a world where conversations about sexuality are often reduced to clichés or clinical terms, The Submissive Next Door Podcast offers a different space. Hosted by Dr. K, a holistic sexuality educator and empowerment coach, this series explores the nuanced realities of kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles from a place of lived experience. Dr. K brings her multifaceted perspective as a fitness trainer, a practitioner devoted to tantra and embodiment, and someone who identifies as a 24/7 submissive. Each episode is a candid discussion that moves beyond titillation to examine the intersections of erotic intelligence, holistic living, and personal power. You’ll hear thoughtful explorations of how submission, dominance, and conscious intimacy fit into a full, integrated life. This podcast dismantles stereotypes, offering listeners a resource that is as intellectually engaging as it is personally relevant. It’s about the practical philosophy of relationships and self-discovery, framed through an unflinchingly honest and compassionate lens. For anyone curious about the deeper layers of desire and connection, this show provides a grounded, educational, and deeply human entry point. Tune in for conversations that honor the complexity of human sexuality with authenticity and care.
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