How to Slide into a Girl's DMs on Social Media ... Instagram ... Facebook ... and the Dating Apps

How to Slide into a Girl's DMs on Social Media ... Instagram ... Facebook ... and the Dating Apps

Author: Mark Sing September 29, 2025 Duration: 26:52

In this unfiltered episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals the secrets to standing out in a girl's DMs when she's getting flooded with hundreds—if not thousands—of thirsty messages every day. Drawing from data collected in his Online Dating Masterclass (over 13,000 tested messages), Mark breaks down the psychology of what actually gets a response and why most men fail before they even hit "send."

From dialing in your profile photos and portraying a high-value lifestyle to crafting witty, curiosity-driven openers that spark replies, Mark gives you proven, field-tested strategies to separate yourself from the herd.

 

Key Takeaways:

- Why your photos and follower count matter more than you think.

- The importance of "pre-selection" and how to showcase it correctly.

- Four powerful DM openers that consistently get replies.

- Why being funny and teasing beats compliments every time.

- How to avoid looking like every other "thirsty guy" in her inbox.

 

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview
[00:02:21] – Announcement: Mark's answering questions on Spotify/YouTube!
[00:03:38] – Why your online presence matters a LOT in 2025–2026
[00:05:14] – Instagram pictures are your no1 priority
[00:06:14] – Pre-selection: why women must see you with other attractive women
[00:07:57] – Follower count is important
[00:11:59] – Utilize AI tools to maximize your photos
[00:13:21] – Four powerful DM openers (tested across 13,000+ messages)
[00:18:12] – Student success stories from the coaching program
[00:20:08] – Four powerful DM openers continued
[00:24:06] – Final thoughts and invitation to apply for coaching


Connect With Mark:

Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/

Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/

Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/

Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula

 

About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

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The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women is a direct conversation about modern masculinity and dating. Hosted by elite NLP dating coach Mark Sing, this podcast moves beyond theory into practical action. Each episode tackles the real-world challenges men face, from initiating a conversation and securing a phone number to navigating dating apps and building genuine attraction. The discussions are designed to help listeners move out of the friend zone, cultivate the confidence to approach women, and develop the skills necessary for meaningful connections. This isn't just about getting dates; it's a deeper exploration of self-improvement, focusing on building an authentic, powerful, and confident personal identity. You'll hear breakdowns of social dynamics, actionable advice for interactions, and insights into fostering a mindset that naturally attracts success in dating and life. By engaging with this podcast, listeners embark on a journey to refine their communication, understand attraction, and ultimately become more effective and self-assured in their pursuit of romantic relationships. Mark Sing brings a coach's perspective to every topic, ensuring the content is both strategic and immediately applicable.
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