My 5 Step Checklist to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend: Don't Skip This One!

My 5 Step Checklist to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend: Don't Skip This One!

Author: Mark Sing March 31, 2026 Duration: 24:02
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
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In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing walks you through the 5 steps every man must follow before asking a girl to be his girlfriend. If you've ever wanted to lock down a girl you really like but weren't sure how to do it without screwing it up, this episode is for you.

Most guys blow it by showing too much interest, and try to force the relationship before it's ready. In this episode, Mark shows you exactly how to avoid that and handle it the right way so she's the one pushing for commitment.

Key Takeaways:
- Why you must see yourself as the prize before ever committing to a relationship.
- The 80/100 rule and how it keeps you in the masculine role.
- How to let her bring up commitment first (and why this is critical).
- The "note technique" to ask her to be your girlfriend in a way that works.
- Why you should never say "I love you" too early.

Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview
[00:00:39] – Aim high
[00:01:25] – You are the prize
[00:02:05] – The 80/100 rule explained
[00:02:45] – Masculine vs feminine dynamics
[00:04:10] – Calm down and stop rushing things
[00:07:49] – Letting her bring up the relationship first
[00:09:49] – What to say when she asks "what are we?"
[00:13:29] – Client testimonials
[00:16:00] – How long to wait before you ask her to be your girlfriend
[00:17:17] – The "note technique" for asking her to be your girlfriend
[00:19:30] – She is not special, bro, don't forget it!
[00:21:00] – Bonus rule
[00:23:32] – Final thoughts 

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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

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The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women is a direct conversation about modern masculinity and dating. Hosted by elite NLP dating coach Mark Sing, this podcast moves beyond theory into practical action. Each episode tackles the real-world challenges men face, from initiating a conversation and securing a phone number to navigating dating apps and building genuine attraction. The discussions are designed to help listeners move out of the friend zone, cultivate the confidence to approach women, and develop the skills necessary for meaningful connections. This isn't just about getting dates; it's a deeper exploration of self-improvement, focusing on building an authentic, powerful, and confident personal identity. You'll hear breakdowns of social dynamics, actionable advice for interactions, and insights into fostering a mindset that naturally attracts success in dating and life. By engaging with this podcast, listeners embark on a journey to refine their communication, understand attraction, and ultimately become more effective and self-assured in their pursuit of romantic relationships. Mark Sing brings a coach's perspective to every topic, ensuring the content is both strategic and immediately applicable.
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