E269 I quit a million dollar corporate path w/ Khe Hy

E269 I quit a million dollar corporate path w/ Khe Hy

Author: CJ Finley June 1, 2023 Duration: 1:20:13
Today’s guest is Khe Hy,  Khe worked on Wall Street for 15 years, becoming one of the youngest managing directors at BlackRock. At the time, he thought he had fulfilled the dreams he had held since childhood: Income. Status, and A nice apartment.  But deep inside, he felt comfortably numb and was afraid he would spend the rest of his life going through the motions. So at age 35, terrified that he would spend the rest of his life going down a path that wasn’t fully him, he pulled the ripcord and started RadReads, a blog focused on helping hard-charging professionals step back from their busy lives and ask themselves life's biggest questions.  -Is this as good as it gets?  -What does it mean to make an impact? -What does a rich and fulfilled life look like?  Now, the blog and newsletter are read by 30,000 leaders each week across countless industries. And Khe has revamped his lifestyle to spend more time with his family, working on his passions, and going on plenty of surfing trips.    Key Topics Khe’s experience with the Socrates quote “The Unexamined Life is Not Worth Living” The War of Art by Steven Pressfield How perceived success and having things “figured out” is deceptive Understanding Prestige, Status, and Imposter Syndrome Fear of Commitment in Professional Life Transitioning from Wall Street to Entrepreneurship The Hedonic Treadmill and Pursuit of Success Substance use and the human reward center Redefining what success means and finding personal fulfillment The struggle of defining a new identity post-corporate life The importance of empathy and supportive relationships Embracing change and overcoming identity crisis The importance of genuine passion and enjoyment in the work we do The concept of "bucket lists" and "reverse bucket lists," focusing on the value of cherishing everyday small moments and experiences over one-off grand events or milestones Connect with Khe Instagram YouTube Twitter   Connect with CJ Finley:   CJ's Instagram CJ's YouTube cjfinley.com   ThriveOnLife Podcast Instagram thriveonlife.com  

CJ Finley hosts the THRIVEONLIFE Podcast, a space dedicated to practical conversations about building a more fulfilling existence. Rather than just theorizing, each episode digs into the tangible aspects of well-being, focusing on the interconnected pillars of health, personal wealth, and genuine happiness. You’ll hear CJ in dialogue with a variety of entrepreneurs and mission-driven individuals who have moved beyond merely getting by and are actively crafting lives they love. These discussions are grounded in real experience, offering actionable tips and perspectives that listeners can apply to their own journeys. The tone is conversational and direct, avoiding empty inspiration in favor of substance. New episodes arrive regularly, continuing a consistent exploration of what it means to truly thrive. This podcast serves as a resource for anyone feeling stuck in a routine and looking for thoughtful guidance on integrating better habits, smarter financial choices, and a deeper sense of purpose into their daily routine. It’s about the cumulative effect of small, intentional changes across all areas of life.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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Podcast Episodes
EP357: How Entrepreneurship Almost Killed Our Marriage - Part I [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 42:18
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EP356: From Friendship to Forever - Erin's Point of View [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:28
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E355: Marriage Lessons - CJ's Point of View [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:00
In this episode, CJ opens up about the real, unfiltered journey of marriage. Sharing candid insights into the challenges and triumphs he and his wife, Erin, have experienced over more than a decade together. From navigat…
E354: How Fatherhood and Ultra Running has Reignited My Drive [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:13
WATCH THIS EPISODE ON VIDEOAfter a year-long hiatus to focus on family, his new role as COO of J&S Accounting Solutions, and growing the brand and mission at Men In The Arena, CJ Finley is back. In this episode, CJ discu…
E353: Life Lessons from Running 5 miles A Day For Over 110 days. [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 16:06
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E351: Why Complaining Won’t Solve Your Problems — But This Will [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 18:12
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EP350: I Feel Stuck - How Building Momentum is My Way Out. [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 15:23
In this solo episode, CJ explores the idea of building and maintaining momentum in life and business. He opens up about his personal struggles with analysis paralysis, perfectionism, and self-doubt, sharing practical way…
E349: I used to be scared to go to the gym... [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 14:43
In this solo episode, CJ delves into the transformative power of fitness training, tracing his evolution from a reserved teenager to a robust adult. He opens up about his early fears of gym culture, his eventual overcomi…
E348: How I plan to rebuild this podcast... [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 16:58
In this solo episode, CJ explores the balance between creating content for personal fulfillment and creating content that resonates with an audience. CJ reflects on his journey with the podcast, initially focusing on con…