Booty Call Blues: Handling Disappointment - TS10

Booty Call Blues: Handling Disappointment - TS10

Author: Tori and Soul, Same-Sex Female Bisexual Couple in the Swinging Lifestyle March 18, 2019 Duration: 45:12

Truth be told, this episode was a challenge for us. It was a challenge to record and a challenge to edit. It's about disappointment. Admittedly, not a happy topic, and disappointment will happen. It's never easy. How do YOU handle it? Do you allow it to ruin your future expectations? Or is there another way out? In this episode Soul interviews Tori, as a way to discuss this uncomfortable topic. In our usual Torrid Souls raw, unscripted and candid way, we express our feelings after experiencing our first majorly disappointing escapade. As always, we talk our way through (the dark emotions that come up) and find the lesson that makes us even better together. Expect that disappointment will happen. Don't let it deject you. There are valuable lessons in it. It's not about the fail. It's about the getting back up and the continuing on. We chat about the importance of having a voice, speaking up when things aren't going as planned, assumptions and intimacy. And we talk about panties too! Yes we do!

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Mentioned in this episode: Lifestyle Dating Site Cafe Desire, That Couple Next Door podcast, The Wheel of Life Exercise and our Travel Page -- Join us May 3 to 13, 2019 at Temptation Cancun TorridSouls.com/Travel or to book for Temptation's 60% off sale going on right now, TorridSouls.com/Temptation See our Show Notes Page for links to all resources and music mentioned in this podcast. TorridSouls.com/10


At the heart of Torrid Souls is a real, ongoing conversation between two people building a life together on their own terms. Hosts Tori and Soul are a married same-sex female bisexual couple, partners for over ten years who now navigate the complexities and joys of the swinging lifestyle not just as lovers, but as parents. This isn't a theoretical discussion; it's grounded in the daily reality of maintaining a passionate, committed relationship while exploring ethical non-monogamy. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to their kitchen table, listening as they dissect the social adventures, the inevitable misunderstandings, and the profound connections that can form outside traditional boundaries. They talk about the intersection of sexuality and fitness, how personal health impacts relationships, and the cultural nuances of living authentically in a society that often expects a simpler story. The podcast resonates deeply with couples who are secure in their love but curious about how opening their relationship might actually strengthen their bond. Whether you're actively exploring alternative lifestyles or just seeking a more honest dialogue about long-term partnership, Tori and Soul offer a rare, unfiltered perspective. Their journey provides a specific, human lens on topics that are often shrouded in secrecy or sensationalism, making every conversation in this podcast both relatable and genuinely enlightening.
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