Dating Penises - TS7

Dating Penises - TS7

Author: Tori and Soul, Same-Sex Female Bisexual Couple in the Swinging Lifestyle January 21, 2019 Duration: 42:48

Penises. Penes. Palos. Mangueros. Pollas. Oh My! Up until this point in our journey into CNM (Consensual Non-Monogamy) we met penis-endowed playmates at clubs, resorts, parties or events. We made our decisions primarily, in the moment, based on the appeal of the combination of appearance and personality. If things worked out we may choose to keep in touch. If not, then it ended there. Some couples, however, do what we would consider mimics "dating". They prefer to get to know one another through online profiles like Cafe Desire, Kasidie, SDC, SLS, Indulge, Quiver. They go out on "dates" to see if they click. We decided to explore this way of meeting potential playmates, and in this episode, we consider whether this is worth trying. Listen in on our candid CarClip conversations as we work through the in-the-moment insecurities that came up around this new way of navigating our hobby. Was this swinging lifestyle becoming a necessary part of our relationship? You'll hear how we get to a place of feeling reassured that, for us, our relationship will always come first (be the main focus) and anything else is only what, and when, we decide will add spice to what we already have together. Tune in to find out how oil painting is the perfect analogy for explaining all of this. Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls


At the heart of Torrid Souls is a real, ongoing conversation between two people building a life together on their own terms. Hosts Tori and Soul are a married same-sex female bisexual couple, partners for over ten years who now navigate the complexities and joys of the swinging lifestyle not just as lovers, but as parents. This isn't a theoretical discussion; it's grounded in the daily reality of maintaining a passionate, committed relationship while exploring ethical non-monogamy. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to their kitchen table, listening as they dissect the social adventures, the inevitable misunderstandings, and the profound connections that can form outside traditional boundaries. They talk about the intersection of sexuality and fitness, how personal health impacts relationships, and the cultural nuances of living authentically in a society that often expects a simpler story. The podcast resonates deeply with couples who are secure in their love but curious about how opening their relationship might actually strengthen their bond. Whether you're actively exploring alternative lifestyles or just seeking a more honest dialogue about long-term partnership, Tori and Soul offer a rare, unfiltered perspective. Their journey provides a specific, human lens on topics that are often shrouded in secrecy or sensationalism, making every conversation in this podcast both relatable and genuinely enlightening.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 33

Torrid Souls
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OMG! We're Non-Monogamous Sluts! - TS1 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:51
After socializing for 2 weeks at the Desire and Temptation Resorts, Cancun, our voices are a wee bit raspy. In this episode we introduce you to our non-scripted CarClips. It's where some of our best in-the-moment epiphan…
The Who, How and Why of Torrid Souls - TS000 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 13:03
In this introductory episode, we share who we are, and discuss how we navigate the lifestyle in a different yet similar way. Find out why we decided it was the right time to make Tori and Soul into a podcast. Discover yo…