Heeey... You're Sexy! - TS2

Heeey... You're Sexy! - TS2

Author: Tori and Soul, Same-Sex Female Bisexual Couple in the Swinging Lifestyle November 13, 2018 Duration: 36:41

Consensual non-monogamy is so much more than just being open to including others who are outside of your primary relationship. It's not just about doing it with others. It's more about opening your own mind about who you open your legs to. Consensual non-monogamy asks you to open up to yourself (and your partner). In this episode we have a discussion, with complete relaxed acceptance, about how feeling attractive, being attractive to others, and having an attraction for others, is a good thing. Unlike what happens with couples in vanilla world, who may argue/feel rejected when one partner finds someone else attractive, the reality is, finding others attractive does not actually negate the attraction you have for your partner. It even enhances it! To fully and freely express yourself with words, and with your body, within and outside of your relationship, without it being a threat to the relationship IS what the lifestyle is all about. So join us and listen in on this smexy convo as we demonstrate how to include discussions about "finding other people attractive" into your relationship talk . Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSoul


At the heart of Torrid Souls is a real, ongoing conversation between two people building a life together on their own terms. Hosts Tori and Soul are a married same-sex female bisexual couple, partners for over ten years who now navigate the complexities and joys of the swinging lifestyle not just as lovers, but as parents. This isn't a theoretical discussion; it's grounded in the daily reality of maintaining a passionate, committed relationship while exploring ethical non-monogamy. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to their kitchen table, listening as they dissect the social adventures, the inevitable misunderstandings, and the profound connections that can form outside traditional boundaries. They talk about the intersection of sexuality and fitness, how personal health impacts relationships, and the cultural nuances of living authentically in a society that often expects a simpler story. The podcast resonates deeply with couples who are secure in their love but curious about how opening their relationship might actually strengthen their bond. Whether you're actively exploring alternative lifestyles or just seeking a more honest dialogue about long-term partnership, Tori and Soul offer a rare, unfiltered perspective. Their journey provides a specific, human lens on topics that are often shrouded in secrecy or sensationalism, making every conversation in this podcast both relatable and genuinely enlightening.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 33

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A Ladies of the Lifestyle Discussion Girl-Pile at NIN2019 - TS32 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:15:07
It's no surprise, y'all know we like 'em big, aaand we like to do things in 3's sometimes. So here you go. This 3 part edition of LOL aka Ladies of the Lifestyle, was originally released as Part 1 with Two Or More To Tan…
Even Naughtier in N'awlins - NIN2019 Part 2 - TS31 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:07:59
Are you ready for some more mischief? This follow-up episode is Part 2 of our NIN2019 recap - a Torrid Souls Repeat-Worthy Event. If you haven't listened to Part 1, EP30: Naughtier in N'awlins, you'll probably want to st…
Naughtier in N'awlins - NIN2019 Part 1 - TS30 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:09:44
August 4-8, 2021 is Naughty N'awlins. What happened at NIN2019, is in this (and the next episode). It's just too big to fit it all in at one time. So we're giving it to you in 2 episodes! Get excited and get ready to hav…
Black N Kinky's Black Voices in the Lifestyle Project - TS29 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:59
We are more alike than we are different and being Black in the Swinging Lifestyle represents a different experience in a community that is almost predominantly White and in this mini-episode we honour Black History Month…
Soulja Boy Birthday Sex, in ATX - TS28 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:15:21
It's Austin, Texas. Circa Summer 2019. We're in town to meet up with Jay and Angie, of Average Swingers Podcast, and Cate and Daryl, of Wanderlust Swingers Podcast (formerly Swinging DownUnder Podcast). We're heading to…
Interviewed by the Two or More to Tango Podcast - TS27 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:26:27
Just when you thought you knew us, we give you this! This Wayback Playback, goes waaay back, to our very first time being interviewed. Mr. & Mrs. Tango, of the Two Or More To Tango Podcast, were so intrigued by us - this…
Gang Bang at Club M4 Toronto - TS26 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:26:12
Ever fantasized about a Gang Bang? Well, at Club M4 in Toronto, it's a reality... and it's called Ladies Choice GB Party! What it is, is a very well organized and very safe event that allows women to choreograph their ul…
Vegas, Baby! Sluts Gone Wild at Fusion and Dirty Vegas - TS25 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:32:39
Vegas, Baby! It's Sluts Gone Wild at Fusion and Dirty Vegas - TS25 Las Vegas! It's legendary. It's notorious. It's infamous. It's outrageous. Yes! and "what happens in Vegas...." well, you're gonna find out! Because when…
Interviewed by the Priory Society Podcast - TS24 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:56:30
As promised, here it is... the interview by The Priory Society Podcast! We stop by their LA studio and what you'll hear is a candid, boobs-on-the-table interview, by the fun and feisty, Eros and Isis, who try to squeeze…
Hashtag Soul's New Boobs - TS23 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:40:36
Boobies! Boobies! Boobies! Everybody loves boobies... and in this episode we talk all about augmenting them. Some want bigger than what they already have, while others want to get back what they once had. Those lovable a…