Sarma Melngailis - Part 2: Isolation, Deeper into the Scam, & Getting Arrested

Sarma Melngailis - Part 2: Isolation, Deeper into the Scam, & Getting Arrested

Author: Exactly Right and iHeartPodcasts October 29, 2025 Duration: 1:04:34

In part 2, Sarma Melngailis, subject of the docuseries Bad Vegan and author of The Girl with the Duck Tattoo, tells Lola & Meagan how Mr. Fox consumed her time, overwhelmed her with information, and dangled promises of financial freedom that was always JUST around the corner as a way to get her to send him more and more money.

She’ll share about the fabricated online personas he created as part of the manipulation, how he always knew things it seemed like he couldn’t have known, and the tactics he used to keep her in a constant state of confusion and dependence, driving across the country until they were finally both arrested. Plus, how she felt about her time in Rikers, and the current status of her restaurant.

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