Episode 20: Cliques in the Lifestyle

Episode 20: Cliques in the Lifestyle

Author: Mr. and Mrs. Tango May 29, 2018 Duration: 46:38
You and your partner show up to a big Lifestyle event, or a Lifestyle resort, or maybe a house party or a club. You don't know anyone, but people in the Lifestyle are open and welcoming, right? But everyone seems to be standing or sitting with others, laughing and having a great time. You feel like you're on the outside looking in. And you decide that the Lifestyle is filled with cliques. But we're like to convince you that the Lifestyle IS the most open and welcoming bunch of people you'll ever meet. In this episode we discuss what can look like cliques in swinger events, how simple it is to feel welcome and included, and what experienced swingers can do to make sure newbies don't feel on the outside looking in. We'll also talk about our trip to the Average Swingers Pub Crawl for Charity, our misadventures with a large suction cup dildo, and an appendage that looked like a large forearm (it wasn't!) And we included a short congrats Snapshot to Mr. and Mrs. Jones of We Gotta Thing podcast for their 50th published episode. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Average Swingers We Gotta Thing Royalty Free Music in this episode Tango by Asteroidsparik Lonely World by Ash Ganley Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

Ever wondered what happens when a long-married couple accidentally discovers a whole new world of connection and adventure? That’s the story of Two or More to Tango, hosted by the aptly named Mr. and Mrs. Tango. This isn’t a polished guide or a sensational tell-all; it’s a raw, intimate conversation between two partners who went from wide-eyed beginners questioning everything to hosting expansive events in their own home. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair in their living room as they replay their journey, holding nothing back. You’ll hear about the hilariously awkward mistakes, the breathtakingly sexy fun, and the profound lessons learned about trust, communication, and desire that no one really talks about. They’ve navigated the transition from curious rookies to experienced guides, yet they emphasize they’re still learning every day. This podcast delves into the real, unvarnished spectrum of the swinging lifestyle-the good, the bad, and the unexpectedly beautiful complexities of exploring non-monogamy as a committed team. Tune in for candid stories that cover the emotional, logistical, and physical aspects of their adventures, all filtered through the unique lens of a decades-long partnership. It’s about more than just the parties; it’s about the ongoing conversation between two people choosing to grow together in unconventional ways. Join the Tangos for an authentic, sometimes messy, but always fascinating look at building a lasting marriage on a foundation of radical honesty and shared exploration.
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