Pelvic Floor Myths and Real Sexual Health Fixes with Dr. Rena Malik

Pelvic Floor Myths and Real Sexual Health Fixes with Dr. Rena Malik

Author: JJ Virgin November 19, 2025 Duration: 35:27
How can you tell whether your pelvic floor is tight, weak, or simply not functioning properly? In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik and I break down the misunderstood world of pelvic floor dysfunction, from tightness and weakness to bladder issues, constipation, sexual pain, and the enormous impact of hormone changes after 40. You’ll hear practical, daily habits that can restore function, improve pleasure, and help you understand how to support this critical part of your health. Dr. Rena Malik is a board-certified urologist and digital powerhouse known for breaking down taboo topics with humor, clarity, and science-backed truth. With over 500 million views on her YouTube channel, she’s one of the internet’s most trusted voices on pelvic health, sexual wellness, and bladder care. What you’ll learn: (00:18) Why pelvic floor dysfunction causes leakage, constipation, and changes in orgasm intensity. (02:53) How pelvic floor weakness develops from childbirth, heavy lifting, or certain exercise patterns. (04:14) Why pelvic floor tightness can show up as constipation or painful sex. (07:43) Why pelvic floor exams are overlooked in women’s healthcare. (11:48) How some common exercise may worsen pelvic floor tension. (14:37) Why women with anxiety or a history of pain may need pelvic floor relaxation. (14:48) How hormone decline and loss of estrogen drive UTIs and pelvic floor symptoms after menopause. (21:53) Which daily habits, like hovering over toilets, can damage pelvic floor health. Love the podcast? Here’s what to do: Subscribe to the podcast. Leave a review. Text a screenshot to me at 813-565-2627 and wait for a personal reply because your voice is so important to me. Want to listen to the show completely ad-free? Go to http://subscribetojj.com Click “TRY FREE” and start your ad-free journey today! When you’re ready, enjoy the VIP experience for just $4.99 per month or $49.99 per year (save 17%!) Full show notes (including all links mentioned): https://jjvirgin.com/rena Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Midlife isn't a crisis; it's a catalyst. On Well Beyond 40, JJ Virgin guides a conversation about rewriting the narrative of aging for women, moving from simply coping to truly thriving. This isn't about chasing youth, but about building a foundation of strength and vitality that makes the coming decades the most rewarding yet. Each episode feels like a direct, practical talk with a trusted expert who cuts through the noise. You'll hear actionable strategies rooted in science, focusing on how nutrition, movement, and mindset intersect uniquely during this life stage. JJ translates complex research into clear steps for refueling your body, managing energy, and cultivating a sense of purpose that goes far beyond the scale. The Well Beyond 40 podcast operates on the principle that knowing *why* something works is just as important as knowing *what* to do. Listeners are invited into a space where questions about metabolic shifts, hormonal balance, sustainable fitness, and intentional beauty are met with evidence-based answers and genuine empathy. It’s a resource for any woman ready to move past generic advice and discover what it means to age with power, confidence, and joy on her own terms. Tune in to reframe your approach and build a life that feels truly well-lived.
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