Smarter Sex Starts Now, with Emily Morse

Smarter Sex Starts Now, with Emily Morse

Author: JJ Virgin March 4, 2026 Duration: 46:56
Why does desire feel so different after 40? And what can actually reignite it? In this episode, I talk with sex educator Emily Morse about sex after 40—what changes, what improves, and what we’ve been taught completely wrong. We dive into hormones, responsive desire, sexual intelligence, and why pleasure is a key pillar of overall wellness. Emily Morse is a sex educator, doctor of human sexuality, and the host of the wildly popular podcast, Sex with Emily. For over 20 years, she’s been helping people ditch shame, boost pleasure, and have smarter, more connected sex. What you’ll learn: (06:04) Why only about 20% of women orgasm from penetration and what that really means for your pleasure. (08:37) How stress, trauma, and shame act as “pleasure thieves” that quietly suppress libido. (09:33) Why adding lube can dramatically increase orgasm likelihood and improve comfort. (14:41) The five pillars of sexual intelligence and how they impact desire after 40. (29:21) How vaginal estrogen and hormone support can transform sexual comfort and confidence. (33:20) Why mindful masturbation helps you truly understand your body and close the orgasm gap. (39:28) How using the “Three T’s”—timing, tone, and turf—can radically improve sexual communication. Love the podcast? Here’s what to do: Subscribe to the podcast. Leave a review. Text a screenshot to me at 813-565-2627 and wait for a personal reply because your voice is so important to me. Want to listen to the show completely ad-free? Go to http://subscribetojj.com Click “TRY FREE” and start your ad-free journey today! When you’re ready, enjoy the VIP experience for just $4.99 per month or $49.99 per year (save 17%!) Full show notes (including all links mentioned): https://jjvirgin.com/sexwithemily Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Midlife isn't a crisis; it's a catalyst. On Well Beyond 40, JJ Virgin guides a conversation about rewriting the narrative of aging for women, moving from simply coping to truly thriving. This isn't about chasing youth, but about building a foundation of strength and vitality that makes the coming decades the most rewarding yet. Each episode feels like a direct, practical talk with a trusted expert who cuts through the noise. You'll hear actionable strategies rooted in science, focusing on how nutrition, movement, and mindset intersect uniquely during this life stage. JJ translates complex research into clear steps for refueling your body, managing energy, and cultivating a sense of purpose that goes far beyond the scale. The Well Beyond 40 podcast operates on the principle that knowing *why* something works is just as important as knowing *what* to do. Listeners are invited into a space where questions about metabolic shifts, hormonal balance, sustainable fitness, and intentional beauty are met with evidence-based answers and genuine empathy. It’s a resource for any woman ready to move past generic advice and discover what it means to age with power, confidence, and joy on her own terms. Tune in to reframe your approach and build a life that feels truly well-lived.
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