Raising Independent Kids in an Overprotective World

Why are so many young adults struggling with independence today—and what can parents do differently?

In this episode of the Where Parents Talk Podcast, host Lianne Castelino speaks with licensed school psychologist, author and father David Krasky, whose book Raising Future Adults explores how parents can prepare children and teens for real-world success.

Drawing on two decades of experience working with families and students, Krasky explains how modern parenting trends—including overprotection, helicopter parenting, and the pressures of technology—may unintentionally limit a child’s ability to build independence and essential life skills.

The discussion explore practical strategies for helping kids develop executive functioning skills, resilience, and social confidence—while balancing the parental instinct to protect with the long-term goal of raising capable adults.

In this conversation, you’ll learn:

• Why independence among teens and young adults is declining

• The long-term risks of overprotective or “helicopter” parenting

• The critical role of executive functioning skills in real-world success

• Why social skills may be one of the most important predictors of future success

• How “lighthouse parenting” can help parents guide children without controlling them

• Practical ways parents can encourage self-advocacy and independence

• Strategies for supporting neurodiverse children while fostering autonomy

This podcast is for parents, guardians, teachers and caregivers to learn proven strategies and trusted tips on raising kids, teens and young adults based on science, evidenced and lived experience.

You’ll learn the latest on topics like managing bullying, consent, fostering healthy relationships, and the interconnectedness of mental, emotional and physical health.

Links referenced in this episode:

1. whereparentstalk.com