Episode 217: He isn’t Helping

In this episode, I delve into a recurring challenge that brides encounter while planning their weddings: the feeling that their fiancé isn’t contributing adequately to the process.

Many brides find themselves shouldering the majority of the planning responsibilities, leading to feelings of disappointment, resentment, and even isolation. I want to address this imbalance by highlighting the emotional undercurrents of wedding planning, which often extend beyond logistics to deeper relationship dynamics.

To tackle the issue of feeling unsupported, I introduce the principle of “turning toward” one another. I explain how responding positively to each other’s bids for connection can significantly impact relationship satisfaction. This means that when one partner reaches out for support—whether it’s discussing font choices for invitations or addressing family dynamics—it's essential for the other to engage rather than dismiss the opportunity for connection. Practicing this skill can lay a solid foundation for partnership not just during wedding planning, but throughout the marriage.

What you’ll learn from this episode:

Understanding the emotional disconnect

The importance of turning toward

Seeking shared responsibility

Featured on the show:

Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/

Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.com

Let’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoaching

Get your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**

https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1