Episode 222: Guest Lists and Guilt

Episode 222: Guest Lists and Guilt

Author: Kara Ghassabeh February 11, 2026 Duration: 17:44

In this episode, we delve into the complex world of wedding guest lists, a topic that often stirs up a myriad of emotions and challenges for couples.

I address the common frictions that arise when planning a guest list, navigating issues of belonging, hierarchy, loyalty, financial considerations, and the intricate power dynamics at play. These concerns are not superficial; they deeply affect couples, leading to everything from tension to outright conflict.

If you find yourself grappling with your guest list, know that you're not alone, and this struggle is a shared experience among couples everywhere.


What you’ll learn from this episode:

Wedding guest list challenges

The B-List Dilemma

Addressing hurt feelings


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