Mediation, Man's Best Friend & Breaking Impasse

Mediation, Man's Best Friend & Breaking Impasse

Author: Debra Hamilton, Esq. April 3, 2026 Duration: 33:26
Why Do Pets Matter? Hosted by Debra Hamilton, Esq.
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Why Do Pets Matter? Podcast Episode Feature: David A. Hoffman Mediation, Man's Best Friend & Breaking Impasse   🎙️ Podcast Episode Introduction What if the secret to breaking a legal deadlock walked into the room on four legs? Welcome back to Why Do Pets Matter? — the podcast where we explore the profound, complicated, and sometimes hilarious ways animals shape our lives, our relationships, and yes, our legal disputes. I'm Debra Hamilton, and today's guest is someone who has been quietly revolutionizing the way we think about conflict resolution — one wagging tail at a time. David A. Hoffman is a mediator, attorney, and founding partner of the Boston Law Collaborative. He's a lecturer at Harvard Law School, a thought leader in the world of alternative dispute resolution — and the proud handler of Bella, a golden retriever who may be the most effective mediator in New England. Bella has attended numerous mediations and has a perfect settlement record. Not one loss. Zero impasses on her watch. In this episode, you'll discover: • Why bringing a dog into a legal dispute room can accomplish what hours of argument cannot • The science behind why pets release oxytocin — and why that matters at a negotiating table • How to put the pet's best interest at the center of a dispute — not just the humans' • David's brand-new book, Breaking Impasse — and the powerful concept of 'malatina' that could change how we resolve animal conflicts forever • Why courts are often the worst place to settle a dispute about an animal — and what to do instead David and I also get personal — talking about what it means to see someone more fully when a dog is in the room, how pets expose our shared humanity even in the middle of a fight, and why the physical environment of mediation matters more than most practitioners realize. Whether you're a mediator, a veterinarian, an attorney, a pet owner in conflict, or just someone who believes animals deserve more than a footnote in the legal system — this conversation is for you. Stay with us. Bella would want you to.

David A. Hoffman, Esq.

Mediator, Arbitrator, Collaborative Lawyer

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New book: “The Art of Impasse-Breaking in Mediation: A Handbook for Mediators, Lawyers, and Other Professionals”

 

Boston Law Collaborative, LLC

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Harvard Law School

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Debra Hamilton, Esq. brings a unique perspective to the conversation about our animal companions on Why Do Pets Matter?. As an attorney who specializes in pet-focused law, she navigates the often-overlooked complexities that arise when pets are part of our families and communities. Each episode explores the tangible, sometimes messy, realities of life with animals-from the legal intricacies of pet custody during a divorce to the everyday dilemmas and joys that pet owners face. Debra is joined by a variety of fascinating guests, ensuring conversations are rich with diverse viewpoints and practical solutions. This podcast digs into the science of our bonds with animals, the nature of their care, and how these relationships shape family life, making it a thoughtful listen for adults and curious kids alike. You’ll find the discussions are grounded in real-world stories, moving beyond simple anecdotes to examine why these creatures hold such an essential place in our homes and hearts. Tune in for a deeper understanding of the problems, the drama, and the profound connections that define our shared world with pets.
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