Be Her Now: Leading from the Woman You’re Becoming

In this special Summer Series Flip episode, I’m so excited to share a conversation I had on the Brilliant Balance podcast with the amazing Cherylanne Skolnicki. We talk all about the journey of becoming—how I moved from chasing external success to aligning with the woman I’m meant to be, and how that shift has transformed the way I live, lead, and support others. I open up about what it means to create clarity (instead of waiting for it), rewrite the stories that keep us stuck, and take radical responsibility for the version of ourselves we’re stepping into. We also dive into the evolution of my book Get What You Want, the truth about personal branding, and why I believe you shouldn’t build your business based on who you used to be—but from the place of who you’re becoming. This conversation is raw, honest, and such a beautiful reminder that you don’t need to wait to become her—you can be her now. Liked this episode? Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review with your takeaways, this helps us create the exact content you want!  KEY POINTS:  00:00 Introduction to the Highest Version of Self 00:17 Welcome to the Influencer Podcast 00:55 Meet Julie Solomon: Author, Speaker, and Coach 03:14 Julie Solomon's Evolution and Specialization 07:27 The Importance of Radical Honesty 13:25 Understanding and Rewriting Your Origin Story 18:14 The Power of Messaging and Presence 21:11 The Trap of Comparison 21:32 Owning Your Authentic Self 22:12 The Power of Personal Presence 23:32 Learning from Celebrity Culture 25:50 Embracing Your Future Self 28:59 Serving Your Future Self 31:50 Staying Curious and Inspired 33:27 Applying Principles in Corporate Life 35:46 Conclusion and Next Steps QUOTABLES: “ You'll see this person doing this and you're like, oh, maybe that's, that's how I need to sound, or how I need to think, or how I need to lead, or how I need a parent without really truly tapping into yourself first. And the more that you can really own who you are. You say what you mean and mean what you say, and you don't say it mean, and you just own that with every bit of you. That is actually the ripple effect in the mirror that magnates people to you.” - Julie Solomon  “ What I really get hooked on is like, okay, what are you making up and telling yourself that, that person has? Because that's going to allow you to drop more into what it is that you want that's already inside you. If it wasn't inside you, you wouldn't see it in other people, good or bad, right? You can also do this with what you're wanting to shed, right? Because it's all a reflection in a mirror of either what you no longer want or what you're wanting to lean more into.”- Julie Solomon GUEST RESOURCES: You can listen to more of Cherylanne on The Brilliant Balance Podcast RESOURCES: [JOIN MY VISIBILITY TRAINING] With just 1 hour a week, my proven content framework will help you refine your messaging and turn your offers into consistent, scalable sales. Click here to get access to my new training! [ORDER] my book or Audible, Get What You Want: How to Go From Unseen to Unstoppable so you can leverage the power of your own influence. Follow Julie on Instagram! MUST HAVES THIS MONTH: [MASTER YOUR MARKETING] Looking for an easy way to manage your email marketing, events, and social in one place? Constant Contact has you covered, with AI tools that make it even easier. Test it out free for 30 days and start growing your list the simple way. Try Constant Contact free for 30 days and start growing your list the simple way. [THE TOOL I WISH I HAD WHEN I STARTED] From your first sale to your biggest month yet, Shopify supports you every step of the way. Try it now for just $1/month.