397 Ann Stanford: Envisioning the Fullness of Self

397 Ann Stanford: Envisioning the Fullness of Self

Author: Gail Zelitzky and Catherine Marienau September 9, 2026 Duration: 25:32

Retirement has afforded Ann Stanford, age 75, “unbelievable luxury—the space and freedom to let things bubble up.” She savors this time to reflect on how she really wants to live and what it means to become fully herself. Always a writer, a former mentor to adult learners, and now a spiritual companion, Ann is committed to “telling my own truths”—and helping others express theirs. Psychoanalysis and contemplative practice have opened the door to “profound spiritual experiences,” helping Ann move beyond a difficult childhood and later struggles with depression and addiction. She is deeply grateful for the “mooring” provided by family and community, as well as for the space that silence and solitude have given her to listen inward. Ann lives by a simple but powerful maxim: “Don’t be afraid of the demons. Trust other people to help you. The answers are in you.”

"If ever I lose my intellectual and physical functioning, I pray I will still have a place inside myself that welcomes me." - Ann Stanford

Connect with Ann: astanfor@depaul.edu

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