209. Lessons on Longevity with Coach and Athletic Director Lanny Williams

209. Lessons on Longevity with Coach and Athletic Director Lanny Williams

Author: Zach Garza & You Can Mentor: Faith-Based Mentoring for Churches, Non-Profits, Youth Ministers, and Teachers November 9, 2023 Duration: 46:38

Effective mentoring means being in it for the long haul.  It means continuing to show up and pour into the mentee, even through the hard times, offense, and dry spells.  It means doing whatever it takes to meet the needs of the mentee.  Mentoring well means showing constant, sacrificial, self-less love for the mentee.  But effective mentoring is also draining.  Continually showing up like that can drain everything you have; especially when you don't feel like you're starting to see any fruit from your time with your mentee.  That is why longevity in mentoring is important.  It's how you can continue to press in when mentoring gets difficult.  Coach and Athletic Director Lanny Williams joins John this week to talk about the mentors in his life, the lessons he's learned in mentoring about longevity, some stories of kids he's impacted reaching out years later to thank him, and how we, as mentors, can set ourselves up to be in it for the long haul.

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Hosted by Zach Garza, You Can Mentor: A Christian Youth Mentoring Podcast is a conversation for anyone guiding young people within a faith context. This isn't about abstract theory; it's a practical resource built for the real challenges faced by youth ministers, church volunteers, teachers, and parents. Each episode focuses on the tangible aspects of building relationships that matter, offering grounded advice on how to listen, encourage, and walk alongside the next generation. The core of this podcast is a shared belief that effective mentoring flows from a foundation of loving God and loving others, aiming to make disciples right where you live. We delve into the questions you actually have, because your input directly shapes the discussions. Many episodes are crafted from real questions submitted by listeners, making the content immediately relevant to your own mentoring relationships. Whether you're navigating a difficult conversation, seeking creative ways to connect, or looking to sustain your own spiritual health while pouring into others, this space is designed to equip and encourage you. The goal is to see Christian mentors not just manage, but truly thrive in their vital roles. Tune in for honest stories, actionable strategies, and a sense of community, all aimed at helping you cultivate a more meaningful and impactful mentoring practice.
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