The Illusion of Safety

The Illusion of Safety

Author: Charlotte Ashley-Roberts November 10, 2025 Duration: 11:17

What if safety isn’t something you create — but something you remember? In this episode, Charlie explores the idea that our fear, our hesitation, and our need for control all stem from thought — not reality.

Through reflection, guided prompts, and practical insight, she invites you to notice the difference between fear and discomfort, to connect with presence, and to step into action from self-trust rather than seeking external assurance. Learn how dropping the armour of “safety” opens space for love, creativity, and true power — in business and life.

Time to stop chasing safety and start living from presence.


Feeling stuck in your professional life is a common experience, but it doesn't have to be permanent. Your Time To Grow speaks directly to women navigating that exact tension between ambition and the realities of a busy life. Hosted by Charlotte Ashley-Roberts, who goes by Charlie, this podcast draws from her dual role as a careers coach and a mother of three. She brings a deeply relatable perspective, unpacking her personal journey to build a fulfilling career that also worked for her family. Each episode feels like a conversation with a knowledgeable friend, blending Charlie's own stories with insights from guests and real-world case studies. The focus is consistently on actionable steps-you'll find practical strategies for building momentum, clarifying your potential, and moving toward work that feels authentic. It’s more than just inspiration; it’s a toolkit for anyone ready to move from feeling lost to designing a career path they genuinely love. Tune in for honest discussions about balance, growth, and the practical shifts that make professional change possible, even when time feels scarce. This is a space for support and tangible advice, crafted for those who are ready to invest in their next chapter.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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Podcast Episodes
Trusting The Process [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:55
In this episode I share a personal example of trusting the process and I invite you to listen for what is relevant for you
Taking care of the soul line [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:52
My coach Lisa said "take care of the soul line and the goal line will take care of itself" and I was intrigued. Let's explore...
There is no perfect timing (you create it) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 13:33
I pushed myself to create what I wanted at the "perfect time" but I learned it's not about perfect timing, we get to create what we want at any time, from who we are being
Busy is not best [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 24:41
I wanted to share a little mantra that my coach, Lisa, shared with me. Let's explore why busy isn't best.
What is my biggest worry if I were to do it? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 7:17
Today we're diving into the question of 'what if I were to do it?' and my counter question as a coach which is "what is your biggest worry if you were to do it?".
You are worthy, just as you are [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 9:48
Your worth is not determined by the judgments of others or external measures of success. It's an inherent part of who you are. Embracing your innate worth is a journey, but it's a journey well worth taking.
The Power of Mindful Meditation [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 17:59
Today we are discussing the benefits of mindfulness meditation PLUS a short loving kindness (Metta) meditation. Please don't drive whilst listening to this episode!