386: Raising Securely Attached Kids // Eli Harwood

386: Raising Securely Attached Kids // Eli Harwood

Author: Cloud10 September 2, 2024 Duration: 37:20
We all know how important it is to raise securely attached kids, but how to do it can be the tricky part!  It's true what they say about parenting: The days are long but the years are short. I feel like the years are flying by with my two kids, who are both now in double digits, and I often find myself wondering how I can parent them in a way that will keep our bonds strong through their teen years and into adulthood - and in a way that they will thrive in their adult relationships after they leave my care. This is why I've been drawn to the work of therapist and author Eli Harwood, who has dedicated her career to studying research on attachment theory and making it applicable to everyday humans trying to build secure relationships, whether that's the clients in her private practice, the hundreds of thousands who follow her on social media, or the people across the world who read her books.   Eli's newest book, Raising Securely Attached Kids, will be released on September 3, 2024, and it was a thrill to have her back on the podcast to discuss this important topic.  For full show notes, including takeaways, click here. *** Announcements: Sign up for my FREE masterclass to learn all about rerouting your mom rage! Purchase Eli's Book here: Raising Securely Attached Kids by Eli Harwood Related Episodes:  367: 3 Ways to Create Lasting Bonds with Your Kids // Mike Westover (Rachel’s Dad!) 279: Navigating Parenting Triggers // Nat Vikitsreth 340: How to Be a Safe Place for your Sweetheart// Eli Harwood Episode sponsors: KiwiCo: Use code 3in30 for 50% off your first month on any crate line! ***

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Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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Podcast Episodes
427: A Simple Framework for a "Balanced" Summer // Jenny Layton [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:18
As moms, summer can feel like both a dream and a juggling act. We want to make magical memories for our families… but we also crave order, rest, and a little bit of time for ourselves. So, how do we actually find balance…
425: When PARENTING Doesn't Turn Out As Planned // Michelle Barrow [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 40:35
What happens when your child's story looks nothing like the one you had imagined? This heartfelt encore episode features my dear friend, Michelle Barrow—a mother of four and grandmother of six—who generously shares the w…
424: When LIFE Doesn't Turn Out As Planned // Jessica N. Turner [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 37:49
When you were younger, did you imagine your life turning out a certain way? Maybe you thought you’d have a house full of children, a forever kind of love, or a career that lit you up. But what happens when the reality of…
422: How to Become a Supercommunicator // Charles Duhigg [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:46
Have you ever asked your kids about their day, only to get one-word answers in return? Or sat across from your spouse on a long-awaited date night and struggled to find something meaningful to talk about? Communication c…
421: Feeling Overwhelmed by Housework? You’re Not Alone. // KC Davis [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:30
If you’ve ever looked around at a sink full of dishes or a pile of unfolded laundry and felt like you were drowning, you’re in good company. I know that feeling well. As a recovering perfectionist and all-or-nothing thin…
420: How to Best Support a Neurodivergent Child // Kim Gameroz [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:43
Are you raising a neurodivergent child? If so, you know the journey can often feel isolating, exhausting, and uncertain. How can you teach them the essential skills they need? How do you build a strong relationship with…