Sade — “By Your Side”

Sade — “By Your Side”

Author: The Ringer September 2, 2026 Duration: 1:46:11
This week’s episode is all about comfort. It’s about being remembered and what better person to commemorate that feeling with than the person whose music doesn’t seem to age- Sade. Sade came out with “By Your Side” after disappearing with no explanation for 8 years because she felt that was best for her. That quiet confidence lends itself to making some of the, in Rob’s words, horniest music imaginable, and the world is better for it. Finally, he is joined by Danyel Smith who explains how Sade laid the groundwork for artists like Rihanna to be the ultimate cool girl and how younger generations are still discovering Sade. (00:00) Intro: Let’s remember some guys (28:19) This week’s song: “By Your Side” by Sade (31:46) Pride, “Smooth Operator,” and ‘Diamond Life’ (42:50) The legacy of Quiet Storm (49:25) Sade’s public silences and ever-growing myth (58:01) “By Your Side” and Sade’s comforting presence (01:07:19) Interview with Danyel Smith (01:42:50) Outro Host: Rob Harvilla Producers: Olivia Crerie, Julianna Ress, Chris Sutton, and Justin Sayles Guest: Danyel Smith Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There’s a particular magic in the way a single track can unlock a whole era-the feelings, the fashion, the cultural chaos. That’s the territory explored in 60 Songs That Explain the ’90s, a production from The Ringer hosted by music critic Rob Harvilla. This isn’t just a nostalgic countdown. Each episode uses one iconic song as a starting point for a deep, witty, and surprisingly personal excavation of the decade. You’ll hear about the artists and the studio sessions, sure, but also about the surrounding movie quotes, political moments, and fashion disasters that give the music its lasting context. The conversation has since evolved into a sequel series tackling the 2000s, but the core of the podcast remains: these are love letters and critical dissections of the pop anthems that defined generations. Harvilla’s delivery is both scholarly and deeply relatable, like talking music with your most insightful friend. Whether you’re revisiting the Clinton years or remembering the first time you loaded a CD into your Walkman, this series argues that to understand the time, you really just need to press play on the right song. New episodes arrive every Wednesday.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

60 Songs That Explain the '90s
Podcast Episodes
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Duration: 1:42:49
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“Hallelujah” — Jeff Buckley [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:42:49
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"Grindin’"— The Clipse [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:24:29
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“Heavy Metal Drummer”—Wilco [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:32:09
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"The House That Built Me"— Miranda Lambert [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:40:51
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“Live Like You Were Dying”— Tim McGraw [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:29
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“Ms. Jackson”— Outkast [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:41:26
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“Can’t Stop”—The Red Hot Chili Peppers [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:31:42
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“Since U Been Gone”— Kelly Clarkson [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:36:34
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