He Was a Pastor With a Sex Addiction. Now He's Helped 25,000 Men Heal (Pt 1)

He Was a Pastor With a Sex Addiction. Now He's Helped 25,000 Men Heal (Pt 1)

Author: iHeartPodcasts June 16, 2026 Duration: 38:56

Nate Larkin spent 20 years hiding a sex addiction. For 5 of those years, he was a pastor. When it was exposed and everything collapsed, it could have been the end of his story. It turned out to be the beginning.

In this conversation, Nate shares what it took to rebuild and how that journey led him and a dozen guys to start the Samson Society, a community built on radical transparency, vulnerability, and confidentiality. What started as one small group has now grown to more than 600 local chapters, daily virtual meetings in 8 languages, and has helped over 25,000 men heal! 

You might benefit from the Samson Society or the newer women's version called the Sarah Society. We all know family members and friends who could. And Nate can teach all of us how to be real and live authentically. 

Check out Samson Society here: https://www.samsonsociety.com/about 

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