bh222: do you put on a show?

bh222: do you put on a show?

Author: bed hoppers March 22, 2026 Duration: 52:08
Hello and welcome to episode 222 - the last of season one! In this edition Mrs H poses some questions around performative sexy times. Do you put on a show when you play with someone? Is it performative or are you just being you? We talk about putting on a show and if that's our bag, what we do for solo dates and if we prep more for other people. It's a fun little end to the first season of the bed hoppers podcast.  Until season two arrives, thanks for hopping into our bed!

Tune in to bed hoppers-swinging in the UK, a candid audio space hosted by a couple navigating this unique aspect of adult life. Mr and Mrs H are in their forties and based in the UK, offering a grounded, relatable perspective as they share their ongoing experiences within the swinging community. While they consider themselves relatively new to this journey, they’ve already gathered a collection of personal stories and insights that form the heart of this podcast. Each episode feels like a conversation with friends, blending honest reflections on their discoveries with practical advice they’ve picked up along the way. You’ll hear them discuss the nuances of the lifestyle with a mix of humor and sincerity, balancing the sexy and the straightforward. The tone is warm, unpretentious, and often funny, focusing on the real human connection and laughter that accompanies their adventures. This isn't about sensationalism; it's an authentic chronicle of a couple's exploration, meant to inform, entertain, and perhaps demystify a topic often shrouded in secrecy. For anyone curious about alternative relationships or simply enjoys hearing genuine personal narratives, this podcast provides a refreshingly open and down-to-earth listen.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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bh192: in the sun and man down [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:11
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bh191: time for a question or two [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:11:31
In this episode we field some questions from our listeners and discord community. Questions include if we see ourselves in the lifestyle in 10 years time, would we ever leave, is there anything we'd change about our jour…
bh190: the masturbation station [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:19
In this edition of the bed hoppers podcast we talk about female masturbation and put Mrs H in the hot seat. We talk about when she started, how frequently and what it means to her. We both explore the OMGYES site and tal…
bh189: solo play for Mrs H [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:08:08
In this episode Mrs H goes on a solo date and has a sexy catch up with a lady friend. We talk about what she got up to (cue awks retelling of sexy times), what the experience was like and if she'd like to do it all again…
bh188: surprising challenges [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:04:25
In this episode we talk about some of the surprising challenges that folks might face whilst being in the swinging lifestyle. We know that things aren't always roses and rainbows, so we asked our community to send in thi…
bh187: party at Vanilla Alternative [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:17
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bh186: how we started swinging [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:02:07
In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how our lifestyle journey began. We work through how we've changed in the eight or so years and also reflect on how the scene has changed in that time. If yo…
bh185: how to rock a threesome [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 53:11
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bh184: UK Swingers on Spicy Island [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:19:30
In this episode we talk about our adventure to Croatia and the Spicy Match Spicy Island. We run through what to expect, what the accommodation is like, the sort of people there, the playrooms, the food, the nights, our e…