bh222: do you put on a show?

bh222: do you put on a show?

Author: bed hoppers March 22, 2026 Duration: 52:08
Hello and welcome to episode 222 - the last of season one! In this edition Mrs H poses some questions around performative sexy times. Do you put on a show when you play with someone? Is it performative or are you just being you? We talk about putting on a show and if that's our bag, what we do for solo dates and if we prep more for other people. It's a fun little end to the first season of the bed hoppers podcast.  Until season two arrives, thanks for hopping into our bed!

Tune in to bed hoppers-swinging in the UK, a candid audio space hosted by a couple navigating this unique aspect of adult life. Mr and Mrs H are in their forties and based in the UK, offering a grounded, relatable perspective as they share their ongoing experiences within the swinging community. While they consider themselves relatively new to this journey, they’ve already gathered a collection of personal stories and insights that form the heart of this podcast. Each episode feels like a conversation with friends, blending honest reflections on their discoveries with practical advice they’ve picked up along the way. You’ll hear them discuss the nuances of the lifestyle with a mix of humor and sincerity, balancing the sexy and the straightforward. The tone is warm, unpretentious, and often funny, focusing on the real human connection and laughter that accompanies their adventures. This isn't about sensationalism; it's an authentic chronicle of a couple's exploration, meant to inform, entertain, and perhaps demystify a topic often shrouded in secrecy. For anyone curious about alternative relationships or simply enjoys hearing genuine personal narratives, this podcast provides a refreshingly open and down-to-earth listen.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

bed hoppers - swinging in the UK
Podcast Episodes
bh186: how we started swinging [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:02:07
In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how our lifestyle journey began. We work through how we've changed in the eight or so years and also reflect on how the scene has changed in that time. If yo…
bh185: how to rock a threesome [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 53:11
In this thrilling instalment we take a look at threesomes - and how we rock them (we can't actually back up that we rock them). We talk about some recent experiences, things to think about and how we've negotiated a FMF…
bh184: UK Swingers on Spicy Island [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:19:30
In this episode we talk about our adventure to Croatia and the Spicy Match Spicy Island. We run through what to expect, what the accommodation is like, the sort of people there, the playrooms, the food, the nights, our e…
bh183: a chat with our son [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:06
In this episode we put our son Morgan in the hot seat. We interview him about being the child (albeit now a grown adult) of swingers, what happened when he found out about our lifestyle, his thoughts on talking to your k…
bh182: events, socials and a bi conversation [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:00:20
In this episode we explore what we've been up to over the last few weeks - from planning events, some lovely social meets and checking out the SSocial Club in Bournemouth. Then, since it's Pride month, we have a chat wit…
bh181: solo dates for Mr and Mrs H [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:23:04
In this episode Mr and Mrs H both experience separate dates and solo play! On the same day! With the same person! Without completely spoiling this episode, we both have some adventures and talk about what went right, wha…
bh180: the greatest swinging podcast ever [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:03
In this thrilling instalment, we turn to our AI overlords to ask 'what would be the best ever swinging podcast?' We get some ideas and then jump straight online to record them! This one is like a mini-guide to swinging i…
bh179: an honest conversation [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:02:27
Welcome to the bed hopper podcast. Over the past few months we've been talking about a shift in our dynamic. Mrs H is much more interested in women - but that's made making new connections much more complicated. So, we d…
bh178: PJ parties, socials and making the most of it [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:00:55
In this thrilling edition we talk about the Swinghub PJ party and find out why Mrs H had to hunt high and low for Mr H. We delve in to the Swindon Social - and touch on how we could get more from going to events and the…