Episode 61: Reality Is Not the Enemy

Episode 61: Reality Is Not the Enemy

Author: Sean and Dayne June 12, 2026 Duration: 53:28
Send us Fan Mail Why do so many of us struggle to stay present? In recovery, we often discover that pornography was not the problem itself but an attempted solution to loneliness, fear, shame, or uncertainty. In this conversation, Sean, Dayne, and Charlie discuss grounding as more than a technique—it is a practice of returning to reality with clarity, courage, and connection. Because freedom may not come from avoiding difficult feelings, but from learning that we can survive them. Suppo...

Hosts Sean and Dayne guide Beyond Sexual Brokenness-Real Time Stories of Recovery with a grounded, compassionate focus. This isn't a theoretical discussion from the sidelines; it's a series of frank conversations anchored in the ongoing, lived experience of moving beyond compulsive behaviors with porn and sexual addiction. You'll hear directly from people navigating their recovery, sharing what's working, what isn't, and the personal lessons surfacing in real time. The dialogue covers practical tools and programs, but always circles back to the human element-the setbacks, the breakthroughs, and the gradual rebuilding of a healthier self. By prioritizing the practitioner's point of view over purely clinical advice, this podcast creates a rare space for authentic connection and understanding. Tune in for honest accounts that demystify the process and underscore that healing, while challenging, is a tangible path forward. Each story adds a layer of collective insight, making this series a valuable companion for anyone seeking a relatable and hopeful perspective on their own journey.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 50

Beyond Sexual Brokenness - Real Time Stories of Recovery
Podcast Episodes
Episode 31: Beautiful Boy - Watching Addiction From the Outside [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:10:24
Send us Fan Mail In this thought-provoking episode of Beyond Sexual Brokenness, co-hosts Sean and Dayne, along with their accountability brother John, dive deep into the raw and complex narrative of Beautiful Boy — the g…
Episode 30: Is Addiction a Simple Choice? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 57:06
Send us Fan Mail In this thought-provoking episode of Beyond Sexual Brokenness, cohosts Dayne and Sean dive into the complex question: Is addiction a simple choice? The two engage in a heartfelt debate, unpacking how thi…
Episode 29: Does Sobriety Define You? Should it? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 53:51
Send us Fan Mail In this thought-provoking episode of Beyond Sexual Brokenness, Sean and Dayne go head-to-head in a deep and honest debate: Should sobriety define who you are? Or is it just a part of your journey—not you…
Episode 28: 'Under the Bridge Downtown' [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:08
Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Beyond Sexual Brokenness, Sean and Dayne take a deep dive into Under the Bridge by Red Hot Chili Peppers, exploring how its haunting lyrics resonate with their journeys of recovery fro…
Episode 26: Rebuilding Love At Home  - LMFT Andrew Engstrom Interview [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:13:54
Send us Fan Mail In this heartfelt episode, licensed marriage and family therapist Andrew Engstrom addresses vital questions provided by a supportive recovery community, focusing on rebuilding love, trust, and intimacy i…
Episode 25: The More I Heal, the More I Uncover [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 42:16
Send us Fan Mail After over 300 days of sobriety, Sean and Dayne reflect on the emotional challenges they still face. While their addiction recovery has brought progress, the journey is far from over. In this episode, th…
Episode 24: Need a Fresh Start? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:36
Send us Fan Mail If you've been struggling with addiction for as long as we have, you've likely experienced countless attempts to start fresh. We all remember those moments—birthdays, Christmases, and New Year's Eves—whe…
Episode 22: Am I Getting Complacent? Discussion w/ Nick. [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:22:07
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we dive into the topic of complacency in the sobriety journey. Is complacency about: Getting too comfortable in your recovery?Overestimating your control over your addiction?Losing touch…