Dealing with Discouragement

Dealing with Discouragement

Author: Anchored Media Network January 30, 2025 Duration: 40:46

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our deep dive into Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts. We explore Chapter 7, "Dealing with Discouragement," the final chapter in the book’s first section on brokenness. Tatum shares her personal experiences with discouragement, particularly as she prepares for law school and navigates business challenges. She discusses the importance of choosing truth, joy, faith, community, and service as essential tools to combat discouragement and remain steadfast in faith. This episode is filled with wisdom for Christian entrepreneurs and leaders facing setbacks or uncertainty in their journey.

Key Takeaways:

  • Understanding Brokenness: Brokenness is a necessary trait of Christian leadership, alongside uncommon communion, servanthood, and radical obedience.
  • The Reality of Discouragement: Every leader faces discouragement, but how we respond determines if it will break us or refine us.
  • Choosing Truth: Avoid denial and embrace both the reality of challenges and the truth of God’s Word.
  • Choosing Joy: Joy is a choice, not an involuntary response. Focus on the presence of God rather than circumstances.
  • Choosing Faith: Faith requires trusting God even when the future feels uncertain.
  • Choosing Community: Isolation can distort reality. Surrounding yourself with wise counsel and support is vital.
  • Choosing Service: Serving others even in difficult times brings healing and purpose.

Announcements:

  • Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join me for this live event where I’ll be sharing insights for Christian podcasters and content creators. I’ll also be opening my mentorship program for the only cohort of the year. https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4
  • Get the Book: If you haven't already, grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity using the link in the show notes https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1


Scripture References:

  • Galatians 6:9 – "Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary."
  • Psalm 119:50 – "This is my comfort in my affliction, that your promise gives me life."
  • Philippians 4:4 – "Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice."
  • Romans 8:37-39 – "In all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us."




Our Sponsors:
* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com
* Check out Bilt and use my code joinbilt.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.biltrewards.com
* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com
* Check out NerdWallet and use my code nerdwallet.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.nerdwallet.com
* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.com/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com
* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.com


Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every week on Blessed + Bossed Up, you’ll find a conversation that sits at the intersection of practical business hustle and grounded spiritual faith. This isn’t about keeping those parts of life separate; it’s about integrating them to build a life of purpose and impact. Host Tatum Temia Ayomike brings her experience as an award-winning entrepreneur, author, and executive producer to each episode, but she comes first as a devoted Christian and a sister on the same path. The Anchored Media Network podcast provides a space where purposeful women can gather to discuss what it truly means to let God lead as the CEO of their ambitions. You’ll hear honest talk about the challenges of entrepreneurship, the necessity of an uncompromising faith, and the daily strategies-both divine and practical-needed to move forward. It’s for anyone who believes their success is a form of stewardship and wants to be equipped with clarity and courage. Tune in for a blend of mentorship, real-world insights, and spiritual encouragement designed to help you navigate the call on your life and business with confidence.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Blessed + Bossed Up
Podcast Episodes
Addicted to Control [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:50
In this final episode of the Internal Harmony Series, we’re tackling the “big C word” — control. Control isn’t just a personality trait; it’s a spiritual stronghold that keeps us bound, quenches the Spirit, and robs us o…
We don't supress, we submit [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 49:30
In this powerful conclusion to the Internal Harmony Series, Tatum shares what it's looked like to live in true peace while managing law school, motherhood, business, and ministry. Through personal testimony and Spirit-le…
When Hustle Becomes Harmful: Ambition or Anxiety? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 54:48
In this special episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, I’m sharing an episode from one of my favorite shows — the Prescription for Purpose Podcast hosted by my friend, Dr. Sharla Walker. This message, Is It Ambition or Anxiety…
How Disembodiment Is Keeping You Dysregulated (and Out of Alignment) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:10
In this week’s episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our Internal Harmony Series with Part 2 — unpacking the psychological factor of disembodiment. This is when we operate from our heads while ignoring our body’s s…
The Faith Factor [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 32:34
In this powerful episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Book Club series on The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, diving into Part 2: Looking Within. Tatum unpacks Chapter 6, "The Faith Factor," where the…
How Cognitive Overload Blocks Your Spiritual Sensitivity [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:56
In this powerful kickoff to the Internal Harmony Series, Tatum invites high-achieving Christian women into a much-needed conversation about the hidden chaos beneath our productivity: cognitive overload. As a mom of three…
Abiding Over Achieving [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 43:13
In this powerful episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, we return to our book club pick, The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley. Tatum shares how this book, one of her top three faith-based reads, is personal…
Contextualize Without Compromise [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:33
In this powerful episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum dives deep into Acts 17:22–31 and pulls out two key strategies every Kingdom entrepreneur needs: cultural intelligence (CQ) and contextualizing your message.Using Pa…
Trusting God After Disappointment [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:06
In today’s deeply personal episode, Tatum steps away from her usual teaching to share a raw and unfiltered story from her recent postpartum journey. After believing she heard clearly from God that she would have a VBAC (…
What the Bible Teaches Us About Leading Like Christ [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:06
Still on a Brief BreakTatum kicks off this episode by sharing a major life update—she is officially a mom of three, having welcomed her baby girl on June 10th. While she’s not taking a full maternity leave, she’ll be eas…