LGBTQ Parenting & LGBTQ Couple Relationships Postpartum: A Conversation with SC Nealy

LGBTQ Parenting & LGBTQ Couple Relationships Postpartum: A Conversation with SC Nealy

Author: Evie Mpras, MS, LMFT June 5, 2026 Duration: 22:32

In this episode, we discuss how queer couples navigate emotional regulation, family dynamics, and relationship conflict after baby arrives. I'm thrilled to be joined by SC Nealy, LPC to discuss the challenges and points of resilience for LGBTQ couples in the transition to parenthood.

We cover:

  • the emotional experience of birth and non-birth partners/non-gestational partners
  • facing societal expectations
  • the importance of parenting support & and relational connection during early parenthood.
  • the effects of extended family relationships & building community

  • We also spend some time learning about SC Nealy's latest book on religious trauma Healing Sacred Wounds that will be released in August!

    Whether you’re navigating queer parenthood, postpartum recovery, emotional distance, or the challenges of building a strong parenting team, this conversation offers compassionate relationship advice and support for LGBTQ+ families adjusting to life after baby.

SC Nealy is a therapist, author, and LGBTQ+ advocate. They specialize in trauma/religious trauma, complex PTSD, LGBTQIA+ issues, and couples and family therapy.

Outside of their work, SC identifies as gender fluid and queer/lesbian. They’re a parent of three, co-parenting with their wife and ex-husband. Nealy's latest book Healing Sacred Wounds is available for pre-order now!

Sometimes these discussions require extra support from a professional.

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This Podcast is not an alternative for mental health assistance and/or counseling with a licensed professional. For any specific medical questions about your condition and/or concerns, please contact your healthcare provider. This Podcast should not be considered mental health advice, rather for the sole purpose of information and education.


There's a quiet shift that happens after a baby arrives, where the focus understandably turns to the newborn, yet the foundation of the family-the partnership-often strains under new pressures. Bonds after Baby: Rebuild your marriage, reduce postpartum resentment & guard maternal mental health speaks directly into that space. Hosted by Evie Mpras, a licensed marriage and family therapist, this podcast is a resource for parents who find themselves navigating unexpected conflict and a sense of disconnection even as they manage all the practical preparations. It’s for those who sometimes feel resentment, isolation, or a fading spark, and who long to reclaim a sense of teamwork and intimacy. Each episode offers grounded, professional insights from Evie’s practice, focusing on actionable communication strategies, managing mental load, and fostering emotional safety. You’ll hear discussions on repairing ruptures, dividing unseen labor, and protecting maternal well-being as a cornerstone for the whole family. This isn’t about adding more to your to-do list; it’s about transforming the quality of your connection from the inside out, turning postpartum challenges into a pathway for a stronger, more resilient partnership. Tune in for honest conversations that help you guard your mental health and rebuild the bond that started it all.
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Bonds after Baby: Rebuild your marriage, reduce postpartum resentment & guard maternal mental health
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