537: Stop Trying to Get it Right!

537: Stop Trying to Get it Right!

Author: Cloud10 March 27, 2026 Duration: 33:02
Welcome Brave Lovers! In today's episode Laurie and George delve into the withdrawer's world and how their mission to get it right is so wrong. Inspired by a recent post from podcaster Steven Bartlett, they discuss the unrealistic expectations and pressure many withdrawers impose and the vicious avoidance cycle they get caught in when they can't meet those expectations. If you identify as a withdrawer in your negative cycle or you want more insight on your withdrawing partner this episode will teach you: what is happening and steps to take to break this habit. You'll learn how to set realistic expectations, reduce pressure and communicate clearly with your partner. It takes less than 10 minutes a day to create a better relationship! Take a page from our role play and address this in your relationship for a more secure connection. Our book Brave Love, Great Sex is now available for pre-order on Amazon. Secure your copy today!  Support this episode's sponsor (and help the pod!): Uberlube.com -- Laurie's long-time favorite personal lubricant! Use the code BraveLove for a discount! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In a world where conversations about intimacy often get reduced to cliches or awkward silence, Brave Love Great Sex-Couples Therapy Podcast offers a different space. Hosted by certified sex therapist Dr. Laurie Watson and renowned couples therapist George Faller, LMFT, this is a dialogue that goes beyond simple advice. Each episode is built on a foundation of professional expertise and compassionate honesty, tackling the real, sometimes messy, intersections of emotional connection and physical desire. You'll hear frank discussions that demystify therapy, explore relationship dynamics, and address the challenges and joys of maintaining a vibrant, erotic bond within a committed partnership. The conversations are designed to be both fascinating and practical, moving from broader concepts of love and trust to specific discussions about sexual intimacy and technique. This isn't about quick fixes; it's about providing hope and actionable insights for couples who want to deepen their understanding of each other. By listening to this podcast, you gain access to a rare combination of perspectives, where a focus on sexual health and a focus on relational fitness come together. It’s for anyone in a long-term relationship seeking to nurture both the brave love and the great sex that can sustain it for the long haul.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

Brave Love Great Sex – Couples Therapy Podcast
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563: Impact versus Intent [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

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Duration: 30:15
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562: Sexual Withdrawers [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 32:23
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Foreplay Replay - Unmet Expectations [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:19
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561: Sexual Pursuer [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:27
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Foreplay Replay - The Ultimate Sex Game [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:03
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560: Emotional Withdrawer [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:04
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Foreplay Replay - When Does Sex Become Compulsive? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:09
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559: Emotional Pursuers [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:02
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