Boundaries: When to Share, Who to Share With and How Much to Share.  [episode with Deb and I]

Boundaries: When to Share, Who to Share With and How Much to Share. [episode with Deb and I]

Author: Dr. Brad Miller March 20, 2025 Duration: 37:04

In this episode, Dr. Brad Miller and Deb Krier dive into the sensitive topic of boundaries when sharing personal information, especially in the context of cancer. Dr. Miller reflects on his experiences with individuals who either over-shared or kept their struggles private, stressing the importance of balancing openness and discretion. He shares two personal stories, one about Phyllis, who kept her cancer diagnosis private, and another about Harry, who was more open with his condition. Through these examples, Dr. Miller illustrates how different approaches to sharing can impact the healing process and relationships.

Deb Krier adds to the conversation by discussing the importance of considering the purpose behind sharing personal details and the audience with whom you are sharing them. She highlights the challenges of over-sharing, especially on platforms like Facebook, where individuals often feel overwhelmed by unsolicited advice. Deb and Dr. Miller emphasize the need for authenticity, grace, and sensitivity when navigating these boundaries, encouraging listeners to build authentic relationships based on trust and respect.


They also provide practical tips for handling different stages of cancer treatment and sharing information appropriately, focusing on community support. Ultimately, the conversation underscores the balance between sharing emotional support and maintaining personal space, offering valuable insights into building strong, respectful relationships during difficult times.


Brad Miller’s Links:

Website: https://cancerandcomedy.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfP2JvmMDeBzbj3mziVGJUw

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robertbradleymiller/


There's a particular kind of alchemy that happens when serious things meet sincere laughter, and that's the space where you'll find Cancer and Comedy: Helping Cancer Impacted People to Cope with Hope and Humor. Hosted by Dr. Brad Miller, this podcast emerged from a deeply personal place. Fresh into retirement after 43 years as a pastor, Brad received a prostate cancer diagnosis during the Christmas season of 2022. His instinctive reaction-to laugh as a way to keep from crying-sparked a mission. Each episode is built on the belief that those touched by cancer are not done living, and that facing the grim with a grin is a powerful form of resilience. You'll hear conversations that blend candid stories from the cancer journey with a genuine, often surprising, sense of humor. It’s not about dismissing the difficulty, but about discovering pockets of light and levity within it. Brad brings his unique perspective as both a longtime spiritual guide and a current patient, creating dialogues that are as educational about mental and physical wellness as they are uplifting. This isn't a lecture; it's a companionable audio experience for anyone seeking to fortify their spirit with hope and an honest, sometimes healing, laugh. Tune in for a podcast that redefines strength, proving that coping can be a creative, and even comedic, act of self-improvement.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Cancer and Comedy: Helping Cancer Impacted People to Cope with Hope and Humor
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