41: getting down and dirty (a very brief interview with Vjeko Nemec AKA Chessentials)

41: getting down and dirty (a very brief interview with Vjeko Nemec AKA Chessentials)

Author: JJ Lang, Julia Rios September 11, 2024 Duration: 1:44:41

The teacher (JJ) becomes the student when their coach (CM Vjekoslav Nemec, aka @Chessentials_) joins JJ and Julia to talk about the emotional highs and lows of playing competitively, particularly when one's identity is wrapped up with being a chess player. Then the coach (Vjeko) becomes the patient when their (unofficial) therapist (Julia) gets to the bottom of why their lows feel so low.

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Hosted by chess teacher JJ Lang and therapist Julia Rios, chessfeels: conversations about chess, psychology & mental health explores the intricate human experience behind the sixty-four squares. This isn't a series of dry lectures on openings or endgames, though improvement naturally surfaces through their discussions. Instead, each episode delves into the psychological landscape of the game-the pressure of competition, the sting of a loss, the joy of a creative breakthrough, and the peculiar obsessions that come with playing. You'll hear candid, often irreverent conversations that connect the strategic demands of chess to broader themes of mental fitness and personal growth. Lang and Rios create a space where the culture surrounding the game, from online play to tournament hall anxieties, is examined with equal parts insight and empathy. By weaving together perspectives from dedicated teaching and therapeutic practice, this podcast offers a unique lens on how the challenges we face over the board mirror those we navigate in everyday life. Tuning in feels like sitting in on a fascinating discussion between two experts who are deeply passionate about understanding why we play and how it affects us, making every episode a thoughtful companion for anyone who has ever felt the emotional weight of a move.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 46

chessfeels: conversations about chess, psychology & mental health
Podcast Episodes
23: you're studying openings wrong (with FM Nate Solon) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:26
In the first podcast to ever feature two of the four highest rated chess players in the state of Nebraska, Omaha-based FM Nate Solon joins Julia and JJ to talk about how he studies openings and why that makes him better…
21: do you ever get nervous? (the anxiety episode, pt 2) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 53:07
Julia and JJ continue their conversation about how anxiety can impact your chess. They talk about how to notice when your thoughts turn from 'observational' to more 'reactive' or 'evaluative,' and how annotating your own…
20: do you love this shit? (the anxiety episode, pt 1) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 51:00
Julia explains what anxiety really is, and JJ talks about how they see this manifest in several of their students' annotations of their own slow games. You can learn how to, like, do anything about it next week.
19: the gang fixes lichess (with @NoJokeChris) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:44
Julia and JJ are joined by Chris Callahan, the community organizer for LiChess.org. They discuss what LiChess does, and could do, about the addictiveness of blitz, how to be more accessible, and, about all sorts of cool…
17: you can't quit us, we're fired [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 35:44
Julia and JJ tackle the question of why competitive and amateur chess players alike make such a big deal out of quitting. What does it mean to 'quit chess' if it's still a part of your life? What could 'recreational ches…
15: the adhd episode [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:35
Julia and JJ talk about their experiences in chess and life as two individuals with adhd, talk a bit about what neurodivergency is and why it matters from a psychological perspective for chess players.