41: getting down and dirty (a very brief interview with Vjeko Nemec AKA Chessentials)

41: getting down and dirty (a very brief interview with Vjeko Nemec AKA Chessentials)

Author: JJ Lang, Julia Rios September 11, 2024 Duration: 1:44:41

The teacher (JJ) becomes the student when their coach (CM Vjekoslav Nemec, aka @Chessentials_) joins JJ and Julia to talk about the emotional highs and lows of playing competitively, particularly when one's identity is wrapped up with being a chess player. Then the coach (Vjeko) becomes the patient when their (unofficial) therapist (Julia) gets to the bottom of why their lows feel so low.

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Hosted by chess teacher JJ Lang and therapist Julia Rios, chessfeels: conversations about chess, psychology & mental health explores the intricate human experience behind the sixty-four squares. This isn't a series of dry lectures on openings or endgames, though improvement naturally surfaces through their discussions. Instead, each episode delves into the psychological landscape of the game-the pressure of competition, the sting of a loss, the joy of a creative breakthrough, and the peculiar obsessions that come with playing. You'll hear candid, often irreverent conversations that connect the strategic demands of chess to broader themes of mental fitness and personal growth. Lang and Rios create a space where the culture surrounding the game, from online play to tournament hall anxieties, is examined with equal parts insight and empathy. By weaving together perspectives from dedicated teaching and therapeutic practice, this podcast offers a unique lens on how the challenges we face over the board mirror those we navigate in everyday life. Tuning in feels like sitting in on a fascinating discussion between two experts who are deeply passionate about understanding why we play and how it affects us, making every episode a thoughtful companion for anyone who has ever felt the emotional weight of a move.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 46

chessfeels: conversations about chess, psychology & mental health
Podcast Episodes
3: a chess player walks into a therapist's office... [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:01:58
What would therapy for a tournament chess player look like? JJ and Julia explore this question by doing therapy on JJ, attempting to get to the root causes of the psychological blocks they encountered during their most r…
2: this is your brain on blitz [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:17:29
We're all obsessed with blitz, but could it actually be addictive? Julia weighs in as a clinical psychologist and assesses whether JJ's blitz behavior meets criteria for an addiction. Follow along and see if you do, too.
1: the real psychology of chess [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:00
JJ convinces Julia to start a podcast about chess and psychology. Julia explains what people mean when they say they're interested in "the psychology of chess," and what they're missing. JJ explains why this should be ca…
chessfeels podcast: the trailer [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:07
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