E183 You Have To Feel It To Heal It - The Pain Won't Disappear On Its Own

E183 You Have To Feel It To Heal It - The Pain Won't Disappear On Its Own

Author: Scarlett Classic June 19, 2026 Duration: 13:13

E183 You Have To Feel It To Heal It - The Pain Won't Disappear On Its Own


Hi Friends,

In this episode I talk about:

Have you ever been to a therapy session and all they get you to do is talk over and over about the painful experiences of your past? That's something that really frustrated me when I was in therapy because I didn't want to talk about the same things all the time, but the point wasn't reliving the stories, the point was allowing myself to feel the emotions that I refused to feel when I was going through it, because I was in survival mode and I wasn't in a safe enough place yet to allow myself to feel. Once we are safe to feel it's important that we dig up that chest of buried emotions and allow ourselves to feel, to be angry about it, to be hurt, so that we can move on and stop carrying the load.


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Scarlett Classic hosts Classic Advice-A Mental Health Podcast, Guidance for Resilient Souls Anchoring Calm Amid the Chaos. This podcast is born from a desire to pay forward the hard-won wisdom gathered from life's unpredictable journey. Each episode serves as a conversation between Scarlett, her co-host, and you, focusing on practical life lessons, tangible coping skills, and genuine advice that has been tested by real experience. The core of this podcast is about building resilience and finding a sense of calm even when everything feels chaotic. It’s more than just listening; it’s about fostering a supportive community where no one has to navigate their struggles alone. You’ll hear honest discussions aimed at lifting each other up, sharing strategies for mental and emotional well-being, and creating a shared space where doing life together feels possible. Tune in for a blend of guidance and camaraderie, where the collective goal is to anchor ourselves and each other with understanding and practical support. This is a podcast dedicated to turning personal experience into communal strength.
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